We've a wedding when i'm 35 weeks pregnant!

Now i'm not sure if we should go as i have to drive it from hampshire to derby!!!

The thing is it's OH's really good friends wedding who he dont see often (whos stag he was at this weekend) and they've gone on and on at him about going as we said no.

But he really wants to go. but the thing is he's going to get drunk, and wants us to stay at his aunts. i've no idea if rowan is invited i'm waiting for him to get home to find out.

but what if i go into labour up there. i know not a huge deal rowan will have trevs aunt to look after him (which i'm ok with as she is lovely) but to be honest i'm not going to want to drive back all that way after having a baby if she's not kept in that is.

or am i just worrying over nothing or being practical?

what would you do?

duh also if we do go what the hell do i wear?

i need bigger clothing and i know some will say maxi but i need one in my size first which i can never find

http://www.evans.co.uk/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?beginIndex=0&viewAllFlag=&catalogId=33054&storeId=12553&productId=2391136&langId=-1&sort_field=Relevance&categoryId=209530&parent_categoryId=209427&pageSize=20

how about something like this? Its obviously not maternity but its a for curvier women so you would get it in a bigger size? some leggings and some nice sandals?

also dont think your being silly. but you should go and try and have a nice time anyway without worrying.

xx

I think your probably worrying unnecessarily about going into labour whilst away, i'm sure you'll be fine (although, don't blame me if you do lol) But honestly i'm sure you'll be fine. Was Rowen early or late?

As for what to wear, I would probably say something like a nice flowy tunic but still quite feminne/dessy with some leggings and some ballet pumps. I know it probably sounds casual but at the end of the day you'll still be comfy and you could always dress the outfit up with some beady neckless/bracelet and a nice flowery thing in your hair

Thats the sort of thing I was thinking ^^^ what Steph posted

there are some nice things on the evans website!

I think maybe you are worrying unnecesarily...you will be 35 weeks..and how long are you going to be away for is it just overnight or a weeks or so?

I was going to suggest a maxi dress im afraid. I went to a wedding at 32 weeks pg and thats what I wore. mine was from New look mat range. New look inspire may fit if you buy a big size.

http://www.newlook.com/shop/womens/inspire-to-plus-sizes/dresses;jsessionid=878C47D6680153AA2FF2460E15C3982B.nlaepheap025newlook1?trail=1002:cat30099:14002:cat30106&icCategory=cat30099&bfh_so=-publishDate&bfh_ps=20

Eeek that link looks very long, hope I dont make this post go all funny and wide!

It not likely you will go into labour at 35 weeks- and if you do it will work itself out. Like you saw rowan would be well cared for and it would take away the stress about having no family near you if you do go into labour at home. Also, if you dont want to drive back im sure someone would drive you all back and you could get your car another time/someone else would drive your car back for you and find their way home. No one is going to force you to drive if you sore and not feeling up to it. xxx

Yeap a maxi dress all the way hun, hope u have a fab day

char

well i've told OH i dont want to go. I know how theses things go with him.

I'll have to do all the driving he'll get drunk and me and Rowan will have to wait for him to take him back to his aunts drunk.

he agreed that he will get drunk and that he'd not be running around after rowan which i'm not going to be able to do.

so i've told him he can go so he's looking at getting a train the morning of the wedding then coming back the next day