H is in the middle of not wanting a daytime sleep and needing a nap but if he has a little sleep he wakes in an awful mood and has total meltdown for an hour, but if he doesn't sleep he is knackered and sometimes falls asleep in his dinner but then wont go to sleep at night. It's driving me mad.

oh dear poor u Sophia has just decided she wont sleep in the day already !!!!

But if she wakes tooo stupid early or has a bad night then she will go down 4 half an hour 2 an hour and there was me hoping to get an afternoon nap when Jaiden starts fulltime in september LOL not a hope in hell now

Oliver went through a phase like that, either created when we put him for a nap and refused point blank, then be super cranky from 5pm or he'd sleep a little and still wake up in a foul mood. Thankfully it was just a phase as we still persisted in putting him down for his nap as usual and he seemed to get back on track again within a few weeks.

Now we've cut them out altogether as he has school in the afternoons, but he has an earlier bed time and still sleep 13hrs at night.

Taylas exactly the same and driving me mad! I cant quite work her out she will go a few days with out a nap then some days either falls asleep in her dinner, on the floor or in the car always about 4-5pm which is too late for naps as she isnt ready for bed come 7-8pm!

Callums goes through the same phrases
somedays he will happily go for a nap others i just cant get him down bt he will then want one around 4 and theres no way he can go down at that time unless i want him up till 11 x