hiya ladies, just thought i'd let ya's all know i'm home and ok, after being admitted onto surgical admissions ward. I had a canular and some iv drugs. Pain was excruciating yesterday, doctors were going to put me to sleep and put a camera in my tummy...but i refused and asked for a scan!!! whilst they were waiting for a free space for scan, they sent my wee/blood to microbiology, and found (in docs words) lots of gunk in my urine basically everything you can get in your wee, that's not meant to be there i have.
so i've been diagnosed with a kidney infection and severe infection in the tube between my kidney and bladder. Pain in my legs is just as bad as my abdomen pain
so home and on anti-bs and total bedrest for 3 days don't think i'll be able to be bedrest for 3 days...with an 11month old son that doesn't sit still lol
anyway thankyou to everyone for your concerns. Obviously won't be on here much in the next couple of days, but i will keep popping on fb banda on my phone if i can get a chance
love you all xx

Aw hun sounds awful. Make sure you get some rest! Can adam not help with benji while you rest?

yeah he is helping emma, and my mum is coming up soon too. just worried now, coz when i wiped there was a lil bit blood there wondering if it's the missing AF showing it's head??

Could be Lou, the ifection may have been brewing for a couple of weeks and that stopped af arriving!

Get plenty of rest Hun hope you feel better soon x

Aww you poor thing! Sounds horrible. I'm glad you're home. Is adam around to look after Benji? Try and get as much rest as you can hun xx

Hun glad they have found a diagnosis, try and get plenty of rest i know its hard but important for you to recover.

Get well soon

Char

Awww hun that sounds bloody awful! Hopefully the anti b's will kick in and youll get sorted soon x

thanks ladies. mum took benji off to hers today, she's having him sleep over tonight so i can get some sleep. Adam has gone up to drop my discharge note off at the docs, and to get me some chinese food from asda...going to treat myself after the horrible time i've had this past week!!
love yas xx

Aww hun, I hope you feel ok soon.

Im not sure how these things work, but if it turns out that this is your missing af, then I would advise that you use towels rather than tampax, as douching may not be a wise idea if you have a severe infection.

Chin up chick xx

yeah nothing is allowed to enter my v-jay until the infection has cleared up, and by the feel of things, i doubt i'll be feeling significantly better by tomorrow- which means a trip to the doctors...
so angry, because tomorrow i'm meant to be paying for the club, (venue for reception doo) and they need payment by the end of this week...hopefully i'll be well enough to go on thursday...
getting benji back soon, then MIL is coming over this evening, to help put benji to bed as OH is being selfish and STILL going to band practice "we need as much practice as we can, we have a gig on 21st of this month!!" some men can be blindly selfish...atleast he arranged for his wonderful *sarcasm!* mother to come and help me...she has to be the worst person ever to "help"...she can't hold him for long, she's in "pain" all the time...no she's just lazy...obviously passed that onto her son can you tell i don't like her?? sorry for rambling, just a bit peed off that when i'm ill i'm gonna be left with a person who annoys me at the best of times...

Ooo nasty! Hope you feel better soon. xx