Is it just me?

Subject: Is it just me? Sat Jul 23, 2011 6:10 am

Is it just me or do you really hate it when people want to feel your bump? Evil or Very Mad

I just want to scream get off me!! This week my boss and my friend both wanted a feel, I told them baby wasn't moving or anything for them to feel but they still tried, I hate it! Hubby is the only one who is allowed to feel bump, otherwise I feel violated! Just wondered if I'm weird Laughing

Subject: Re: Is it just me? Sat Jul 23, 2011 6:13 am

no not at all hun!!! at first i let everyone touch my bumpy (then the novelty worse off) and it annoyed the friggin shit outta me Laughing

i didn't mind family/close friends feeling when he was moving about...but when randomers just came and put their grubby mitts on me...BAH! i could've punched them right in the face! Razz

deffo not weird Very Happy

Subject: Re: Is it just me? Sat Jul 23, 2011 6:35 am

I hated it but obviously had a very hands off air because most people didn't try

Subject: Re: Is it just me? Sat Jul 23, 2011 6:52 am

tbh, no one really approached me to touch my bump..OH used to touch it all the time but that was about it.
We have a friend (more OH's friend but i've known him for as long as I've been with OH) anyhoo, he came round one day and looked at my bump in amazement lol, and asked if he could feel it lol Laughing

so he did and the look on his face was a picture He was like 'WTF!! Its rock hard lol'

There's no way i'd just let randomers touch it though, but close friends - yes I would Smile

Subject: Re: Is it just me? Sat Jul 23, 2011 7:04 am

People know/knew better than to even dare touch mine. I made it clear to everybody to not even ask.

Mil did it on Xmas day when I was pg with Aimee but I just jumped out of her way and stopped her.

I'm so mean lol x

Subject: Re: Is it just me? Sun Jul 24, 2011 12:29 pm

I told everyone to stay away fromine. People touching me freaks me out. THere were some random weirdos in tescos that lunged for it though and i didnt have time to get out of the way

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i hated people trying to do it, at work was the worst....but once elijah was born random weirdos in the street/tesco etc always tried to touch him and touch his hair and stuff (seriously when he was like weeks old) and i used to get really angry with them.....wtf get off my child!!! i don't touch strangers or their children as a rule!!

Subject: Re: Is it just me? Mon Jul 25, 2011 8:09 pm

I do the same Mari. I do not want manky hands all over my baby, god knows where theyve been! I seriously cant fathom why people would think its ok to come up and touch somebody elses baby, really fricking winds me up!!!

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I used to like it but then again, not people asked lol maybe I'm unapproachable Smile