Lou Lou I said not to enter lol


I thought that we should right a few tips for a happy marriage for Lou Lou
As she is getting married tomorrow, I know she's been so secretive about it


So my tip is

Tell him you love when you feel overwhelming emotion even if you just have.

Circle dates on a calendar on the wall and remind him couple of weeks before about anniversaries, you will never forget then

But hope tomorrow goes well and enjoy the day and don't stress too much xx

Communication is the key! Don't assume he knows how you're thinking/feeling, they never do, you have to tell them.


Congratulations, hope you have an amazing day xx

Lots of hugs and kisses x

Hope your day is as beautiful and amazing as you are

im not married but im going to say - always have trust for one another - if theres no trust theres nothing there.

have a fantastic wedding day and always be happy

xxxxxx

awwww Im not married but my "tip" is always remember women are right!



Hope you have a fab day hun xx

My tip is remember us women are the more intellegent gender so if it's not marked on the calendar, written in big BOLD letters and post it noted around the house he will forget.

Being married for 3 years now and I've kinda felt like treating him like a puppy works really well. Give him lots of love and affection, feed him at least once a day, give him positive noises when he displays correct behaviour and rewards, like washing up for instance, hubs washed up once and I said awww babes thank-you sit down I'll make you a brew & he's washed up every day since lmao. Once you've broken them in & got them housetrained you're pretty much sorted although I'm still working on getting him to take empty packets to the bin lol xxxxxxxx

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Being married for 3 years now and I've kinda felt like treating him like a puppy works really well

hahahahahaha i second that!

like shell said, communication is really the key, make a promise not to lie about anything to each other, good or bad, and you should be fine

have an awesome day

I completely agree with what Dilly wrote!!! I'm not married yet but my 7 year relationship has definitely taught me that as a female I am more intelligent! Explain everything in layman terms otherwise they just will not understand. Make sure they are actually listening to you when you are talking because you will find out that you have been talking to yourself otherwise!


Good luck hunni, I really hope you have a fantastic day and a wonderful long happy marriage and life together xxxxxxx

I'm not married (FFS 10 years together now)

But communication, like the others have said they don't know what your thinking or feeling you have to tell them. Don't drop hints it don't work just tell them. If he asks you what you want for xmas or your bday show him, print it off and give it to him.

I showed Trev a pair of earrings i really wanted in the shop window. He went back the next day to get them. I opened them at xmas and he got the ones next to the ones i wanted. which i didnt like

If your having a bad day don't take it out on them it will cause unnecessary arguments.

Always smile at them when you first see them in the morning, and say i love you. not sure how but it sets thrm up for the day

Good luck tomaz hun, enjoy married life

Like with parenting, choose your battles wisely and otherwise be understanding and forgiving - he is only a man after all lol.

Communication is so important. Look after eachother.

Lou, have a fantastic wedding day, if you're not unlucky you only get one! You really deserve all the best after everything recently. You have been so strong despite everything, you leave me in awe. Big hugs xxxx

Congratulations hun!

Dig a nice big hole in your garden and threaten him with it everytime he steps out of line x

Have an amazing day Lou xx

If you want things doing, write them down!

Make time every day to say I love you and have a hug, makes you and him feel loved and appreciated xxxx