so, over xmas lewis has turned into a monster, he doesn't listen, he shouts, he points at us and random strangers and shouts, runs off which he's NEVER done before, swipes things off the shelves in shops...the list goes on

this has been getting progressively worse in the last 4-5days....when we go to the supermarket he will pinch, scratch and try anything to stop me holding on to him...when sam takes charge he tries once and gives up...yet 2days ago he walked around asda with sam...deliberately reaching out to kick me!
sam took him to the council offices yesterday with him on his own and says that he walked nicely, sat nicely during the appointment, didn't whinge once...he was back to 'nice' lewis

today i took lewis to the hospital on my own for my GTT and for the 2hours i was waiting he was screaming, whining, shouting, pointing at people, destroying anything he could and when we left he tried to leg it away from me, dragged around the shops screaming and refusing to stand, swiping things off the shelves etc and no matter how much i told him off, firmly told him no, explained what he did wrong, even so far as to kick him back(gently! lol) for kicking me, he still acted like a little shytebag

now i don't think it's the typical bored of mum and excited to see dad etc cos sam is always about and is as involved as i am...so does anyone have any ideas what the heck is going??on because i'm really at my whits end...i barely get any sleep, am starting to 'feel' pregnant and i just can't deal with the way he is being

Aah you poor thing that's not nice. Do you think he's twigged that you're pregnant? He probably doesn't really get it but knows somethings changed with you and thats making him feel insecure and act up? I know Milo never really got on with my oh until i was pg, since then they've been inseperable, and i do think some of that was Milo knowing something had changed with me. Have to say since I've had Noah Milo has been his super adorable self with me again so it didn't last very long

I was wondering that. Perhaps his feeling a bit insecure because he can sense things are changing

He knows somethings up hon. Even if you dont realise it you are prob different somehow to normal. He may not know you are pregnant but he knows somethings different about mum and is acting out cos its confusing him. C wa a toad to me when I was pregnant, at one point i posted on here convinced she hated me as she didnt want anything to do with me. It did take a while after Awen was born but once she worked out a) awen wasnt going anywhere b) I still loved her and c) normal non prego mummy was back she relaxed and was much more secure in herself

No simple answer sorry it may be there a bit from now til squishy comes and a bit afterwards but you will get Lewis back soon

i really hope you ladies are right and after squishy is born he goes back to normal, although that's still 14weeks!!

had a lovely morning at home together, we cuddled, played trains, watched some cartoons...took him into town and he was back to being a monster