Thanks guys
Deb yes I often think my two sound like your two and judging people with fussy eaters or offering unhelpful advice like 'dont give in' is also a bugbear of mine. And Jade thats basically my thinking, giving her an element of choice but controlling what she can choose.
Suse hon we discuss this all the time and im glad Libs is being good atm cos god knows our two seem to sync so im sure about the time she starts acting up so will C. Its like they also have FB cht or something!
Well in the last cpl day of carrot vs stick we have had some more breakthroughs. I doubt I will get fresh fruit in for some time yet but shes tried dried cranberries, dried blueberries, dried cherries, papaya and pineapple cubes and enjoyed them all. She is now demanding a pot of berries be taken out on all walks and as we walk along her and Awen share them. She particularly likes 'vampires' (papaya). We have also gotten her onto smoothies so i already have a juicer and got a book on juices to see if I cant get her to try some different juices, im trying carrot and apple first to see how we go and might be able to sneak some veg in. We are also getting to the point she has an ellas kitchen pouch at every supermarket visit and again i dont mind the 3 odd pound a week to get that in her. And ive found out she eats banana at shool :O, im not pushing her to eat it at home or mentioning it, if shes happy to eat it there its extra goodness and nutrients. So on the new food front we are making a breakthrough.
On the dinner battles tonight she had tomato soup which she loves and started messing about so I calmly said you either eat it or its bedtime and she settled right down and ate it and when she finished I said that since she had eaten well she could stay up late and once Awen went to bed I read her two stories and we played with her RC car. So she seems to have cottoned on to the idea (fingers crossed, im sure as ive said this now she will retract that)
So today shes had a croissant for brekkie, at lunch she had a berry smoothie, some papaya and berries (dried), cheese on toast and monster munch crisps then at coop she had a fruit pouch and at dinner she had tomato soup with croutons. For her thats a really good day
Ive also got a graze box coming tommorrow ive signed up to start getting em for a while and 1st ones free, second ones half price and have some vouchers for money off others so if she likes them will keep them up, we are gonna big up that they are posted specially for her and Awen and let them pick at them without interference to see what they both try in the hope we get some new snack ideas.