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olliesmammy
Age : 34 Join date : 2010-09-13 Location : Wales Posts : 4970
| Subject: Boyfriends/girlfriends staying over Sun Oct 07, 2012 7:01 am | |
| Would you allow your childs partner to stay over in the same room? What age would you find this acceptable or would it depend on the length of the relationship etc? Would it be different depending on if it was a boy or girl?
I've decided my rules will be as long as shes over 18 and in a serious relationship, like over a year long then Id be ok with it. As long as no obvious hanky panky was going on, wouldnt wnat to hear it lol. Adam says he'll make it a condition that they can sleep over as long as shes been jabbed or implanted, lmao! |
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liberty
Age : 42 Join date : 2011-03-25 Location : Britain Posts : 2753
| Subject: Re: Boyfriends/girlfriends staying over Sun Oct 07, 2012 7:05 am | |
| I don't know about this. My instinct is no but then I feel a bit of a hypocrite because we did at Adam's. Adam would say yes though. I think we may have to see how we feel at the time |
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olliesmammy
Age : 34 Join date : 2010-09-13 Location : Wales Posts : 4970
| Subject: Re: Boyfriends/girlfriends staying over Sun Oct 07, 2012 7:21 am | |
| The only boy I ever brought back was Adam and he didnt stay over untill after I was pregnant with ollie, he actually moved in with us |
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Shell
Age : 34 Join date : 2010-08-16 Location : Flitwick Posts : 3732
About Me! My Name: Michelle Status: Mummy Number of Children: 2
| Subject: Re: Boyfriends/girlfriends staying over Sun Oct 07, 2012 7:27 am | |
| This is hard. i don't think i can say a yes/no or age dependant. i think it depends on the girlfriend/boyfriend, how much i trust them and either Josh or Immi, also how serious the relationship is. my mum always let Matt stay over, but we were very serious straight away and she knew he was a good boy, we didn't rush anything. |
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liberty
Age : 42 Join date : 2011-03-25 Location : Britain Posts : 2753
| Subject: Re: Boyfriends/girlfriends staying over Sun Oct 07, 2012 7:28 am | |
| See Adam stayed over a lot when I lived with Mum and Dad but he stayed in the spare room |
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olliesmammy
Age : 34 Join date : 2010-09-13 Location : Wales Posts : 4970
| Subject: Re: Boyfriends/girlfriends staying over Sun Oct 07, 2012 8:11 am | |
| Yeah, if she picks a wanker he wont be staying lol |
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Emmylou
Age : 51 Join date : 2010-08-19 Location : Essex, UK Posts : 1202
About Me! My Name: Status: Number of Children:
| Subject: Re: Boyfriends/girlfriends staying over Sun Oct 07, 2012 8:47 am | |
| I was never allowed and wont likely let the boys until its a solid long relationship.
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mrsmb
Join date : 2010-09-08 Location : up north Posts : 1345
About Me! My Name: Kim Status: Mummy Number of Children: 2
| Subject: Re: Boyfriends/girlfriends staying over Sun Oct 07, 2012 9:11 am | |
| I wasn't allowed to stay in the same room as Mike at my mum's until I was married! Well no actually when we were engaged he once stayed in my room but in a put me up bed So I think they would have to be over 18 and I would judge it on how serious the relationship was and if I could trust them |
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liberty
Age : 42 Join date : 2011-03-25 Location : Britain Posts : 2753
| Subject: Re: Boyfriends/girlfriends staying over Sun Oct 07, 2012 9:12 am | |
| That's what we were like. I think Mum probably would have let us if I asked but I knew she wouldn't have been happy with it so I didn't. |
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CarlaAndCallum
Age : 37 Join date : 2010-08-17 Location : Essex Posts : 4673
About Me! My Name: Carla Status: Mummy Number of Children: 1
| Subject: Re: Boyfriends/girlfriends staying over Mon Oct 08, 2012 9:26 am | |
| I dunno really times change. i was 17 when i was aloud my bf to stay x |
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Niccsy
Age : 36 Join date : 2010-12-07 Location : england Posts : 1901
| Subject: Re: Boyfriends/girlfriends staying over Tue Oct 09, 2012 8:18 am | |
| prob over 16 and over 6 month relationship x |
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Niccsy
Age : 36 Join date : 2010-12-07 Location : england Posts : 1901
| Subject: Re: Boyfriends/girlfriends staying over Tue Oct 09, 2012 8:20 am | |
| just remembered, i stayed at my bf's with both parents consent in the same bed at the age of 10! x |
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EmzandFlick
Age : 37 Join date : 2010-08-19 Posts : 2251
About Me! My Name: Status: Mummy Number of Children: 1
| Subject: Re: Boyfriends/girlfriends staying over Tue Oct 09, 2012 10:53 am | |
| I think it would depend on the maturity of them both. If they are in a serious relationship then I would consider same room. Flick would have to be at least 18 before I would even consider it xxxx |
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