Realise that you are married with a child?
What I mean by that is are you ever amazed by how your life is?
4 years ago I was single, out nearly every night with my best mate. My own place, not a care in the world.
Now I have a HUSBAND!!!!!! Something that I never thought I would have. And now I have this beautiful little girl who relies on me to be a good mummy.
I know I sound bonkers but I am still in shock that I actually made my mess of a life into something amazing

Not married (but then I've been married for 7 and a half years) but it does sometimes feel strange that I have a child

When i look at my friends who i went to school with who either live at home still or at uni i do think omg i've been married for 4yrs have my own place and 2kids.

Yep I have days where I wonder at how my life has changed so much, 5yrs ago I didn't have 1 child, now I have 3! It's quite scary when I think about it

i often quite suprise myself with how normal i am these days....