Can someone please help me and try to shed some light on what might be happening please?

As everyone on here knows that we've lost our baby and we're just waiting to see if nature does it's thing before I get referred to hospital to discuss where we go next. Last night when I wiped there was what looked like pink tinged EWCM (I showed it to hubby and he agreed it looked like blood streaked mucus) but I've been to the loo twice since then and nothing, does anyone know of think this might be the start of things? I've also had god awful belly ache and cramps and a really achy lower back (almost like early labour pains) since Monday. There is no smell I can detect so I know it's not an infection.

Thank-you, Dilly xxxxxxxxxxxxx

hiya hun ,,, when i lost my baby ,, i started with the pink tinge and it was not until a few days later i started bleeding heavily and passing x x

Hun this is exactly what i had saturday night. I posted about it on here too.

by sunday it turned a bit heavier

oh i had those pains too, looks like its happening naturally .

xx

Yeah it definately sounds like its happening naturally hun xx

Thank-you Michelle, Kelly and Carla, what's the betting it'll happen on Saturday? Saturday night is my daughter's surprise birthday dinner and we're all going out to the Beefeater for a meal and family from over 60 miles away are coming too. I hope it does happen naturally but if I'm in agony on Sat I won't enjoy myself as much but I'd much rather it happens naturally xxxxxxxxxxxxx

This is what happened with me too, had that starting tues then thurs night i bled heavily and lost baby. I didn't have any pain though. I'm sorry you're going through this, and i really hope it doesn't happen at your daughter's birthday party xx

Dilly mine was just like period pains and lower back ache.

take some painkillers (i took paracetmol) will take the edge of the ache. i'm not bleeding that heavy its a little lighter then my normal AF but i'm still bleeding and my AF is 3-4 days

so sorry for your loss hun .xzxx.

Paracetamol hasn't touched it, yes it does feel kinda like period pains. It's not sore in the middle of my tummy just either side is so sore but when I get tightenings/cramps then that is all over my tummy and really, really hurts. I have had no more blood streaked EWCM since last night.

Seriously Mother Nature stop being a biatch and get on with it already!!

I'm sorry if I sound angry/upset/annoyed but I am grieving but I don't feel like I can grieve properly yet, how can you say goodbye to someone who hasn't yet gone?!?!?!?

It's completely understandable how you feel. I'm so sorry you're going through this. I'm here if you wanna talk xx

I thought I'd started to bleed last night, there was a drop in the toilet and red streaked when I wiped twice but when I went again before bed nothing! I put a pad on in case but this morning still nothing! I was feeling a bit relieved last night that it was starting to happen naturally but now I'm confused. Hubby said to go to the Dr's on Mon if nothing happens over the weekend to find out what is going on.

Thank-you for the support ladies xxxxxxx

Dilly, mine was very slow in starting. i only had blood when i wiped and that was up right until monday afternoon. and mine started saturday night.

But Hubby is right if still nothing by Monday take a trip to the gp

When I've lost naturally before it all happened very quickly, I got spotting then by the night the baby had come out and heavy bleeding for a week then it was over. After my mmc I had no idea anything was wrong until the 12 week scan so went for the op and was achy and bleeding for about a week/2 weeks afterwards so this slowness is new to me. I keep worrying something is wrong, I'm a natural panicker anyway and hubby's panicking that they won't let me take the tablets and I'll have to have another op.

I just wanted to add that i didn't have any bleeding in a pad. Literally i only bled when i was sitting on a toilet. it was all a bit weird, but the nurse at EPAC told me this was quite common. I don't know if that helps knowing that. Sorry it's stressing you out even more, it's all so unfair xx

I've found a pattern to the bleeding now, not sure if this willl make sense, but I only tend to have little bleeds in the eve if I've been over doing it during the day I've has 3 mini bleeds now every time after a hectic, stressful day. After organising MJ's surprise do and running around like a blue assed fly all day and not having a moment to sit and rest I had another mini bleed last night and I've done alot today (5.3 miles walking) so I'm fully expecting another tonight.

It is so, so bizarre I really do want to know what is going on now and can't wait until I see the GP tomorrow, hopefully get some answers. Xxxxxxxxx