Boy! It will be my 4th boy. I must admit im a bit sick of people saying oh u poor thing and assuming I am upset about this. Yes if \i could choose I would have liked a girl but I will love another boy just as much.
I was just so happy to be told he was healthy.
Only thing I am struggling with is a name!! x

Congratulations!

People can be so rude at times cant they!

I dont know what Im having yet (and prob wont find out) but we are finding boys names really hard to choose too. x

Snoopy I remember us being pregnant at the same time last time! Think we were due around the same time? x

Congrats!!

Why do people feel like need to say things like that. So rude.
We're having a little boy too and have really struggled with a name too.x

Nikki wrote:

Snoopy I remember us being pregnant at the same time last time! Think we were due around the same time? x

Really? What was your name on AB/is your toddlers name? I posted a bit at start of pregnancy, then again at the end..... then disappeared until she was 3 or 4 months old. I wish Id posted more when I was pregnant with Caitlin instead of just lurking. Sort of feel I missed out on sharing my pregnancy with people. Caitlin was due 19.07.09 and was born on 22.07.09 x

His name is Thomas, I was due in July but he was late so was born begining of Aug.
I think user name on ab was Nikki77 but unsure. I can def remember u tho! I used to be on there all the time.
Shell, I didnt think finding a boys name would be so hard! x

Hi nicki,

Sorry to be nosy but where in Cambridgeshire are you? I'm in Cambridge. Many congrats on your little boy. We've had people say oh you must have wanted a boy as we have two girls. As long as they're healthy like you say x

congrats on your little boy xx

congratulations hun, people said the same to me i was like eh no why would be disappointed it is a healthy baby for gods sake lol xx

Thanks everyone, I am just happy to be having a healty baby, I have been there with having a baby with something wrong so being healthy is much more important to me.

Kitcat I am in the fens near March x

Congrats Nikki, I hope all goes well.
Just noticed your due date is 1 day after mine. xx

Congratulations hun xx

Nymmy wrote:

Congrats Nikki, I hope all goes well.
Just noticed your due date is 1 day after mine. xx

Do u know what u are having? x

No I wanted to but at my 20 week scan baby decided to be awkward (figures, is my baby after all hehe) So I guess it'll be a little surprise

I would have had to have had a private scan if they could not tell me the sex, I wanted to find out at 16 weeks but hubby put his foot down but did agree if baby was shy I could then have one. Are u ok with having a suprise? x

At first I wasn't. But honestly, I've apparently got ante-natal depression (got hist of it) so that put me in a low place. Plus the ex, the sperm donor so to speak, gave me grief about it (because clearly the doctors and I were lying).
But now I think the surprise might be nice.
Plus I can't afford a private scan, and if I had one it'd be like letting the depression rule my decisions, which is not good.

Congrats hun, thats brill at least u will be well looked after and protected wen ur order

Nymmy wrote:

At first I wasn't. But honestly, I've apparently got ante-natal depression (got hist of it) so that put me in a low place. Plus the ex, the sperm donor so to speak, gave me grief about it (because clearly the doctors and I were lying).
But now I think the surprise might be nice.
Plus I can't afford a private scan, and if I had one it'd be like letting the depression rule my decisions, which is not good.

oh no, so sorry to hear that. I hope you are ok x

XxCHARnNOAHxX wrote:

Congrats hun, thats brill at least u will be well looked after and protected wen ur order

haha thats one good way to look at it! x