I want a new job but there is nothing, the one I am in now is mindnumbing and degrading, I'm a waitress in a 4 star hotel in York, and the kind of people I have to serve treat us like we're idiots. I want to go back to uni but me and Rob are arguing about whether it will be worth it in the long run. I want to be a primary school teacher, but I don't think I'm good enough. I love kids and love the idea of teaching them but its getting to that point that is the problem. I don't know what kind of help we would get, the course is full time and I wouldn't be able to work but if we didn't get any help financially I won't be able to do it. As you can probably tell my head is a mess all over the place.

Worse of all, I'm broody as hell, really bad timing lol


Arugurhurhguhughrrrrrrghhh fml

first off anything you want to do to better your future and most importantly make you happy will be totally worth it.
you may struggle but you should be entitled to some help even if it is just some help with childcare. I think the very least you should do is sensibly look into courses and unis and see if you have the grades etc to get in. then speak some more about it. show your serious.

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I've looked on ucas website, even got details on the creche at uni, I think the idea of us having very little money scares him as he likes to feel secure when it comes to money, hes been screwed over by his ex (she took his 6000 pound savings and left him in debt) so I can understand that he wants to be financially stable, but I have the potential to earn over double what I'm earning now it just needs some serious hard work!! xxx

yep it will do. you will be working very hard for the next few years but its doable.
and you will just have to convince him that in 4-5 years time you will be very financially secure.
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