not seen M the oldest since she left when she was 4 .(now 11) just once for 20 mins 4 years ago ... had the cheek to send ha birthday card adressed to my darling daughter im like WTF u cheeky mare. and card from her step bro and sis she never seen .
card said to darling daughter will take u on big shoping spree when u want love victoria and chris

she stoped putting mummy ages ago.

i have NO problem with her sending card to M from vitcoria and chris. but have said NO to daughter ect card SHE is my daughter and tbh she gave up al right to call her that when she ran off with a squaddie leaving her and her 8 month old sister.

sorry had to get off my cheast she winds me up we wont hear anythin now till a card next year L wont get a card on her b day i doubt .

please NOTE i have NEVER EVER stoped her seeing the kids alll i have asked is that it is done tho me and hubby not mil . (resonable i think) she in past has been ver malicious and has threated to take M for good not L tho . its her CHOICE not to se ethem she also wants me to adopt them and keeps on about it BUT the adoption has only been raise once we finally got her to start paying maternance so want to adopt so she doesnt ahve to pay how bad is that ....
M told me to put them in the bin . she doesnt want to know her

wow what a stupid woman, doesnt she realise how that will mess up the poor kids head?!

Fair enough if she intended on following through with her promises, but sounds like she never will

Aww what a horrible situation for your step kids and you. it's just messing with your step children's minds and that is so unfair especially after everything she has already done.xx

nope lisa she never does will be writern again in next years one too its sad cause i woulnd have a issue with her if she wanted to come down and visit but regualy and get to know her but she doesnt . her lose my gain / she blames she lived far away near leeds we are wayyy south but then at end of dday she choose to move there knnowing they would be here . we have credit cards and loans to pay off so next xmas when that finsishes we will adopt and she can bugger off for ever . but doing it now just becasue she doesnt want to pay we will not do . she only been paying a year out of the loads she missed .

Sounds like your daughter has her head screwed on Ju, she knows who her mam is. xxx