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PostSubject: He hates his bed!   He hates his bed! EmptyTue Aug 17, 2010 11:43 pm

Well Sam is now in his big bed (its a double as they have a triple sleeper)

He refuses to go to bed on his own so one of us has ended up aying with him till he falls to sleep. Not sure what to do as he is so young. He will not stay in the bed no matter how many times i put him back in and just gets hysterical. I feel like i cant do the controlled crying in the bed as he is so young.

But its either the bed or some serioous injuries from getting out of his cot pale
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PostSubject: Re: He hates his bed!   He hates his bed! EmptyWed Aug 18, 2010 2:06 am

Oh Mara that's got to be difficult. It's still early days is'nt it?
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PostSubject: Re: He hates his bed!   He hates his bed! EmptyWed Aug 18, 2010 2:56 am

Yeh this will be his 6th proper night in it Rolling Eyes
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PostSubject: Re: He hates his bed!   He hates his bed! EmptyWed Aug 18, 2010 10:35 am

I cant really offer any help cos I have this all to come!

Hope he settles soon though xx
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PostSubject: Re: He hates his bed!   He hates his bed! EmptyThu Aug 19, 2010 12:31 am

Hi Donna.

We (and Moo) found it a bit hard when he moved into his big bed too. Its all new to them and he will most probably be feeling very insecure about it all. Oliver too got very upset and it just broke my heart, so we just offered plenty of cuddles and reassurance.
We tried the putting him back in bed all the time too but he just didn't get the hint lol So after a few days we moved on to the gradual retreat method. Starting by sitting on his bed, avoiding eye contact and conversation..By day 2 we moved to the floor, then just moving closer to the door - little by little. Doing this seemed to ease his anxieties about the whole 'big bed' situ. Just as he was relaxed enough, but not quite asleep we'd leave the room, making no fuss or convo.

After a week or so of him being in his big bed we could see he was settled enough..he got to the stage where he'd go bounding into bed on his own. He did get out and potter about his room, but we used to just leave him to it..when he got tiered he got on his bed and went to kip.

It may take a little while, just stick with it..lots of cuddles and praise on a morning if he's done a whole night, good luck hun..HTH Very Happy
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PostSubject: Re: He hates his bed!   He hates his bed! EmptyThu Aug 19, 2010 12:49 am

Hey Zee,

Thanks for that hun, i think i may start the retreat thing tonight. I have ever had to do it before so its a really new one on me Rolling Eyes

I will find it really hard as the older kids are still kicking about at that time so its not exactly peaceful in our house Mad

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PostSubject: Re: He hates his bed!   He hates his bed! EmptyThu Aug 19, 2010 1:43 am

Sometimes its good to have a bit of noise around the house, that way they don't demand piece and quiet when it comes to bed time Smile

Good luck and let us know how you get on Wink
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