Bare with me with this one pls

I came off the pill december 22nd/23rd'ish, mid cycle. Af hasn't shown at all this past month.
I'm guessing I ov'd around the 4/5th of Jan (due to CM at the time) so today would be 11 dpo.

I was suffering with slight nausea last week and insomnia even though I feel tiered I get in bed and can't sleep.
Yesterday I did a test (was for OH really as I was feeling extremely nausea's again. Tbh I thought it'd be too early) anyhoo it was bfn (wasn't fmu either )

Since yesterday I have been getting pulling/griping pains low down..I don't really associate this with af as I usually just get a mild tummy ache and af shows within a couple of hours. But still no af. I have been getting a fair bit of CM all day yesterday and today too.

After doing some working out I could possibly do a pg test tues/wed time.

I don't know what to think really, do these sound like signs? Honestly? what do you think?
I'm actually quite scared to do a test cos I don't want the disappointment I could wait for af to show, but cos of my cycle I could be waiting forever lol but I hate not knowing too...argh, i'm driving myself mad with it all

It's only 2 days Zee then you can test. It does sound like something is going on and all the signs are there.

And if it isn't this month there is always next month...looks like you might be actively ttc

Thanks Gill. I say tues/weds, but i actually want to wait till thur/fri..just so I know for sure whether its pos or neg..does that sound silly

I suppose if it is bfn, at least I'll know where I stand with my cycle once af does finally arrive!

Aw hun how confusing for you! I would say wait till Thursday or Friday just to be sure! My cycles are all messed up to so know how u feel hun xx

Are you ttc Char?

Not properly till after the wedding but we have no.protection if that makes sence I was due on the 13th but no sign.yet just dull pains xx

Whoop whoop Aww, I hope af stays away lol, its less than 3wks to wedding.. Times flown by!
You been getting any symptoms, have you tested?

I have felt sick all day today and tiered but I'm.always tiered these days not tested yet as.no money till Thursday guna give it then if no Af then will test
Yh time flown so quickly

When are you testing?? X

I'm going to do it Thursday/Friday too if no af by then.
Good luck, you'll have to update us at the end of the week

Same hub will look out for Ur post x

hi zee i came off my pill august september time and i didnt have my af till 18th december it drove me mad waiting so long so did a few tests but always got bfn i can always tell when i should be due though has i get cramps and i can be a little irritable and emotional which i have been this weekend but no af has of yet i wont be able to tell if im the same has last time though i had no sickness or anything with Riley anyway here's hoping this is the month 4 us both and every1 else ttc u will after let us know xx

stupid AF's lol i'm waiting on mine too came off the pill on 2nd Jan but hadn't had an af for ages anyway. Wish it would come so I can start TTc properly

ah zee...all the signs sound fab...i really hope you're lucky!!

i'm due today and so hoping we've had a happy lil accident...not too confident of it though!

Tbh ladies i'm not feeling that optimistic. All symptoms have disappeared although i'm still getting the pulling pains low down, it kinda feels like i've pulled a muscle and pulls when I bend, sit or twist etc but its kind of on the inside - ohh, its hard to explain

Still going to test at the end of week if no af, but I am just waiting on af to show so we can start ttc officially.

I suppose I was asking for to much, its just cos I got caught straight away with Moo, never had af when coming off pill and 6wks later I got bfp.

Just want to wish everyone else good luck

my friend said shes been feeling like pulling pains low down and she is 6week pg so keep optimistic about it uve still not had af so u could be

ah zee...any signs of those symptoms again!?!

i keep getting tummy aches like af is coming...but was due yesterday and nada so far...dunno what to think!

i still have nothin either

Ohh I sense some bfp's coming, hope I can can join you in a few weeks, fingers crossed

No nothing yet, no AF...still getting the pulling sensation and have had a bit of heartburn this eve, but that's probably the SF chicken I had for tea

Still holding off testing till end of week though.
Kenty are you not testing???

i hope the pulling sensation is bits and bobs stretching for a likle beanie!!

i bought a test today and if nothing by morning then i'll test...but tbh i'm not expecting a bfp...i've prob messed my body up with coming off the pill

Hope you two get bfps xx

tbh char, i'm not trying and not 100% sure how i'd feel about another baby....even if i am dead broody! lol

Aw hard one init! I swear contraception just mess with your body.I have been.off the coil 3 months.now and mine still.messed as I.haven't had Af yet since 13th Dec

Kenty I feel the same, tbh, I don't think (now) i'm going to get a bfp..I think its probably just my body playing tricks on me

My last af was 16th Dec Char and still nothing..I was on the pill for 1wk after af then stopped randomly so I think thats why my cycles so messed up.

Kenty - If you get bfn in morning, are you still 'trying'?

Piglet - I've got everything crossed for you hun..and good luck at your appointment. xx

ahhhh zee, sounds like we're both a bit messed up!! lol.

i'll be going back onto the pill if i get a neg....i only came off because i ran out and forgot to get a drs app to get more...the idea of another oct/nov baby isn't appealing as it's already stressful! lol

i'm really in two minds over having a baby...i'd love another but not sure if the timing would be right!

zee...when exactly are you going to test? would you not be due anytime?