Hi ladies

Tonight he has finally decided it's over. Well he can flog his dead horse all by himself lol.

I made him decide cause i'm not gonna be blamed for ending it. It wasn't my fault at all. If he can't change and be a man instead of a selfish, narcasistic, lazy, demeaning little boy god help the next woman he's gonna put through this. After a failed marraige and many failed relationships he should realise the repeating factor that IT IS HIM!!!!!

I am now single and have my beautiful little daughter to myself. She don't like him much anyway as she climbs over him to get to me and screams if he picks her up when she's hurt cause she wants me then ha ha.

Tomorrow i start to plan my new life back home where i come from 54 miles away from him.

That is all. Yes i am a little bitter but at least i'm not crying.

Dee
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Good call Dee - he doesnt deserve to be let off over and over again and it clearly is him that needs to grow up!

dee , im ever so sorry your family just did not work out but i am so happy that you can begin to live your life and be YOU ! not a skivvy for some daft man !

you and mia are going to have a fabby time together without the stress of arguments !

x x x

Good for you Dee

He can treat you how ever he chooses but you have the choice to accept it or not.

Make sure you get a legal agreement signed up for his access to Mia and maintenance payments.

well done dee. you deserve so much more. you sound very strong right now just stay that way until you get away from him!

have you somewhere to go? xxx

i am sorry it hasnt worked out but you deserve so much better than him, i am sure you and mia will be a lot happier now xx

don't worry i will. It's not my first ballgame lol.

He already pays for 2 kids through the csa that comes straight off his wages. This'll just be a third. Hopefully he'll leave Mia alone like he has the other 2. He hasn't bothered with them for years

Steph - no i don't but i'm gonna phone the ho eless team at the council tomorrow.

Dee
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I'm sorry but WOOHOO!!

You deserve so much better than him

lol lisa thanks hun x

such a shame. look at her gorgeous face. why wouldnt someone want to know her! his loss eh! x

Dee I'm so pleased that are being so strong and positive. You will get times when you "oh shit I'm on my own" but you will move on and you will get over it! You and Mia will be so much happier without him. Just remember you have us lot and it's his loss.

Sending hugs and girl power!
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Yay!! Good for you, after reading all your posts i was willing you to get away from him. I really hope you and Mia will be very happy without him, but i'm sure you will x x x

Im sorry to say im not sorry dee. You deserve better and so does Mia and i hope your frame of mind stays this strong and positive

You sound like a role model for any woman keep your head held high your doing fab!! Girl power!! Xxx

dee u r amazing. im so glad for u that this is now over. u deserve so much better and maybe u can get on with beign a fab mummy and lead the life u deserve with mia x

Oh dee I'm genuinely pleased to see this post, I'm really sorry if that doesn't come across right.
You are definatly doing the right thing you deserve to be treated like a queen!

Hugs! xxx

thanks ladies i will get there. Mia will be happy with her mum anyway. I've got phonecalls to make tomorrow. x

This is the first day of the rest of your life............

AND IT NOW LOOKS MIGHTY FOOKIN GOOD !!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Ah hun i really think he has been given enough chances, you and Mia do deserve soooo much better. His loss big time but he prob is that pig headed he would never know what hes missed out on! Im all for working thtough things and not giving up at silly little things that can be sorted or resolved, but with him you were banging your head against a very hard brick wall!
Big hugs, it wont be easy to start off with but def gotta be better than the crap you've been listening to!! X

Well done Dee you and Mia deserve better xx

sod him what aboot meeeeeeee dont leave me

good for you girl. now to look forward to a brill future with your girlie x

pecan wrote:

sod him what aboot meeeeeeee dont leave me

I'll still visit. Maybe not as often but i'll be around.

I need boxes and lots of them. Anybody got some i can borrow?

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This is great news hun! Not that I ever want to see families split up..but he's been a total dick head from the get go! You deserve so much better and you are now on track to find it! Good riddance! xxx

you go and get the brightest furture for you.. good luck xx