lets face it ladies....there's really no point is there? everyone knows we all read them haha and reply! surely it's just an extension of the lounge?!

No, it must be just you being the nosey bugger!!

lol yea i think its just all we are all nosey

or I reply as see a thread in box, I reply and afterwards I see was in messages woops! ha

The point of that forum is that you can have a conversation with 1 ( or2 , 3 people whatever) and not 'annoy' everyone else in the Lounge with a thread that doesn't concern them!

Of course people can read them, hence why they aren't Pm's, cos they might be able to help, want to join in, but the purpose being that people don't have to see someones else's conversations if they don't want to.

SO no lol don't start putting member messages in here!

pffff i just wanted to see if anyone else would 'fess up to reading them too

PMSL Mari - don't feel bad, Im sure most of us do!

I read them too Mari - well some of them. I am nosy but like Lisa said, I thought the point was that it was aimed at a particular person but may be interesting to others - otherwise surely they would pm?

xx

I am very nosey and always read others

I never go in cause no sod ever leaves me a message!!

mara wrote:

I never go in cause no sod ever leaves me a message!!

Me neither x

I think also so it doesn't get lost in the lounge..said person may not be on for a few days, and by then it could be on page 3 - never to be see again

I don't tend to nosy (that much lol) only if i'm in there posting I may have a peek, but tbh am not fussed

Lisa wrote:

The point of that forum is that you can have a conversation with 1 ( or2 , 3 people whatever) and not 'annoy' everyone else in the Lounge with a thread that doesn't concern them!

the purpose being that people don't have to see someones else's conversations if they don't want to.

Hmm, so is that what the 'meet' section is for? to discuss meets?

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Hmm, so is that what the 'meet' section is for? to discuss meets?