Sorry need to get this out!
I'm getting married on 25th August 2012 to Adam whom I've been with since I was 14!!
My childhood friend may aswel be my sister been side by side since we were 3 years old is abit well majorly on the tom boy scale! Well being my nearest and dearest I've asked her to be my bridemaid and her 4 year old little boy to be pageboy for Ashton she's given a definate yes but for her (which I totally understand) she's asked if she can think about it she's terrified of the whole dress wearing and attention on her thing ...ANYWAY a girl we went to school with who I decided to kick out of my life as she's bitchy jealous spiteful and worse of all has more faces than than a catalogue everything that you don't want in a 'friend' so haven't got her or any of her friends of facebook other than my best friend who stil talks to her ...
After talking to Alana today (my best friend/sister) she told me that zoe had said we know about tamsen and Adam ya know and alana said AND??and zoe said I bet she hasn't even asked you to be bridesmaid has she? Alana said actually she has and Ashton is being pageboy so does reply was haa she's using you how don't you see it !!!! and went on and bitched about several other thing WTF how is asking her to be part of my big day using her lmao and you know the funniest thing she's been going on her friend teri's facebook just to view my life god I feel so special to know how interesting my life is for people to go through desperate measures just to see what I'm doing how cute! Urghh well teri is now deleted haa pissed on their party some people ayy

Appologies if I have sent you to sleep xx

Some people really have nothing better to do! Nosy cow

Oh what a tosser she is!! Does she not have a life of her own to keep her occupied?? I hate people like that!! I'm sure your friend knows not to take her seriously, hopefully you can cut this biatch out of your life a bit more!!

Sounds like a right biatch Tams. I also asked my friend to be my bridesmaid when I got married along with her two kids. She said she wasnt sure as she jist wanted to enjoy the day - she ended up being bridesmaid after all but tbh i wish she hadnt as she just moaned all day. So if she turns around and says no i wouldnt be too offended - it might be easier on you on the day!!

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Alana told me so it hasn't bothered her it's just what zoes like a manipulative biatch I'm better off without her not that she in my life at all anyway! X

What a silly cow, I hope Alana does become your bridesmaid, I reckon she would enjoy it.... when I was bridesmaid for my bros wedding I thought I would hate it cos it was me and Jess and sils little sister, and thought I'd look the worse of all three (you've seen Jess!! lol) but once I was in the dress and had hair done etc I felt really good so maybe she just needs a bit of a confidence boost.

That Zoe needs to get a life instead of interfering in yours, stuped bint!! xx

Thanks em I know I think she will like it n be glad that she did its alana is kelllys sister who lives with jess don't know wether you've seen her but her words were it'd be like asking a man to wear a dress haha bless her but as long as Ashton her little boy is my pageboy I stil feel asthough she's in my wedding ad as for zoe it's more of a shock as to why the he'll do they care they hate that I kicked them out of my life and they expected Alana to fall out with me like Alabama said to her how can I be the user when it was me who took her and Ashton in when she was homeless when she moved bk here from Poole/Dorset agh love Banda for getting things off my chest x

Was looking all over for this post lol, any luck on getting Alana to be bridesmaid yet?? And I haven't met her properly but I've seen her and she would look lovely in a dress xx

stil don't know if sh will I really don min if she's not her little boy is definatly being pageboy for me tho so at least one of them will be xx

How about a bridesmaid with a difference?

Who says a bridesmaid has to wear a dress? She could have a nice trouser suit if she isn't comfortable in a dress.

My SIL was bridesmaid for my BIL back in the early 90s when it was all peach/ pink off the shoulder frilly numbers and she normally lives in jeans and trainers. It was well before my time but OH says she hated it and was unhappy all day, the pictures reflect that too.

You don't have to be conventional.

haha she sounds like she is just very very jealous!

Dont let such an idiot wind u up

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Definatly want them in dresses I'm not fussed if she's not as she will she be there ooh don't worry she's long forgotten everything is booked now I'm so excited now xx xx