hi girlss...im new here so thought i best jump staright in a get to know you all im 20 years old and have a gawjus fiance called ben and an even more gawjus 21month old little boy called jamie!!

ive been wanting to try for another baby for a while now but OH hasnt been 2 convinced on the idea money wise and things..so i basically put it out of my mind as best i could and just never mentioned it again! anyway last nite he told me hes been thinking about baby number two! i was sooo super excited but didnt want to show it 2 much as i dont wana push him into it he needs 2 want it by himself otherwise it wudnt work!

so 2day he has gone to work and ive just rung up 2 get my implant taken out on the 18th oct i dont know how he'l react so will have 2 let u all know later on but like i said to another friend on here if hes not ready yet we can use condoms untill he is! does that sound a good idea to you guys? xxx

Hiya. How exciting! my hubby was similar to your fiance unsure about no.2 for a while so we used condoms, then stopped using them but didnt actively try just had sex when we wanted and let nature decide. We now have 3wk old Josh Hope your fiance is happy with your decision to get implant taken out and you can start ttc soon xx

thanks i do too..im kinda scared to tell him haha..just dont want to be 2 pushy cos then if he agreed it would be for the wrong reason lol..but i shall let u know xx

oooh how exciting! it sounds like a reasonable thing - even if you dont ttc straight away it will help to let the hormones leave your system

Awww, you must be really excited!

I think getting the implant taken out is a good idea.

We decided to do that and just use condoms... (see ticker below, lol!) x

aww thats great laura..congratulations!!! so bascially u aimed to use condoms but got carried away sumtimes and didnt and thats how u got pregnant? am i right? lol

well ive just told him ive booked the appointment cos i said i want my hormones to settle and stuff cos the implant has really messed with my periods etc. sooo annoyin! so even if we dont try 4 a little while at least my body will get to a good balance xx

Lol, yeah, thats about it. That was the plan with Aimee... and I fell pregnant. We planned Lily. This time we wanted to ttc another baby in a year or so and decided to go with the condom option... and im pregnant again, lol!

After this is one is born I am having every type of contraception possible!!! x

haha i bet..your gonna have your hands full but in a lovely way do you know what your having? xx

Lucy what did he say? was he ok about it?

hey kell..well i didnt make a big deal out of it. i just said that ive booked 2 get it taken out cos i want my body to go back to normal cos he knows how bad its been (had 2 go 4 examinations and things). so ye basically i just said that at least then wen we want to try its simple all we do is dont use something but i dont want to until hes ready! he kinda just nodded and agreed lol..hes not much of a talker wen it comes to things like that haha!
but il keep u updated from when i get it took out ie if we dont use anything sumtimes haha!

but noooo way am i gonna trick him in 2 it! im gonna make sure i say we must use a condom every time we do something and then its up 2 him 2 say yes or no..cos if i dont and i end up gettin pregnant i dont want it 2 b like i tricked him in 2 it cos he knows i want 1...does that make sense? xx

Yep it makes sense hun, it's totally the right thing to do! Jody's switching his mind daily almost it drives me mad! I may go back on the pill until we know for sure. I know he'd be happy but at the same time I don't wanna force it!