Aww sorry she got you Dee, good luck to everyone else xx

Yeah she was mortified that she had upset me, I feel bad for spending the whole of last night slagging her of to my friend lol

His grave is lovely, he's got windmills and birds and bright colourful things. It really cheers me up going there, I suppose it's because I can still do things for him, like tidying up his flowers nd making him look pretty

My friends little Girl has the same thing! It's lovely, she's put a picket fence round it and lots of flowers and little statues like fairies etc.
It always makes her feel better also, it's lovely to have somewhere to just sit and think!

Glad your oh sorted it, don't worry you were shocked I'd say! Don't feel bad!

What do you guys reckon to my cycle? My ov came later than normal by three days so as my lp is usually 12 days do you think I should be expecting af three days later? I mean if it is the same my cycle would be 31 days this month not 27/28.
So confusing lol!

Yeah sounds about right Kell. My lpthis month was 18 days really not like me at all. Maybe my cycles are different now who knows????

Good luck everyone else x

I'd expect it 3 days late I think but be prepared in case it comes as normal! I ov'd 8 days early apparently so I'm expecting mine early

Dee is this your first month trying after having Mia?

No i had 1 jag of depo and came off it may 14th. I've been trying ever since but this is my first proper monthly cycle so fx it will happen in the next couple of months.

How has your cycles been since ollie? x

Well im out, tested today with a FR at 12dpo and negative not even a hint of a line. I know its over for another month and am not going to kid myself. Its been 3 years of ttc now with 2 operations and 2 miscarriages to show for it. At this rate wont even have a baby in 2011. Its shit ttc, it really is!!

Oh Hun sorry it's a bfn and also that your feeling so down,

Could you maybe look at it different, like the reversal was the date you actually started ttc?
Sinse your reversal you have been pregnant twice I know that your pregnancies ended in mc and I'm so sorry for that but you can now get pregnant! That's amazing!!

It may feel like for a long time you tried in vain but now it's so different Hun! You can get your sticky bfp and you will!
I have everything crossed for you (except my legs lol)
((((big hugs)))) xxx

Sorry I just said reversal and didn't mean to! Think I'm going slightly mad lol I know you've not had one! I'm a Stupid woman! x

Thanks Kell, I know you are right . In reality we have to forget the 1st 2 odd years of trying and look at it as if its been 7 months. Ill be ok in a few days once af has done its worst, just wish I hadnt had such a feeling that i was going to be pregnant then it wouldnt have been so hard. Onwards and upwards

Good on you!!
Hey when my af arrives you'll have to remind me' that it's the first cycle! I know how much ttc can take over your life, I remember the sadness when af arrived all to well unfortunatly!

Some chocolate, a cuddle and an early night and you'll be all set!
X

Kell wrote:

Good on you!!
Hey when my af arrives you'll have to remind me' that it's the first cycle! I know how much ttc can take over your life, I remember the sadness when af arrived all to well unfortunatly!

Some chocolate, a cuddle and an early night and you'll be all set!
X

More like a few to many vodkas Wont do that until af has arrived though, just in case lol

Kell wrote:

Good on you!!
Hey when my af arrives you'll have to remind me' that it's the first cycle! I know how much ttc can take over your life, I remember the sadness when af arrived all to well unfortunatly!

Some chocolate, a cuddle and an early night and you'll be all set!
X

More like a few to many vodkas Wont do that until af has arrived though, just in case lol

I had my first af 5 weeks after he was born, then my last cycle I charted and ov'd on day 17 and had a 29 day cycle and this month it looks like I ov'd on day 9 so things seem to be working all be it a litle unsettled at the moment.

Nutty, I'm not saying sorry until the witch shows I know it's only been 7 months since your op but to be trying for 2 years prior to that must be heartbreaking. It's not as if you can realistically just write those 2 year off becuase you were trying and hoping for a baby. I hope you can take comfort in he fact that at least you know you CAN get pregnant, it's just a matter of time now x

My charts are indicating I ov on cd18 which was Monday, so I think my af will be due on the 23rd, nothing to report at all really, 2ww is upon us and all is quiet in the camp lol

Well my chart is now not showing ov at all I don't know whats happening now! This ttc malarky is so stressful x

Hmmm I wonder why it's done that! Want us to look at it and see what we make of it? x

hi ladies, still on holiday but got a quick 5 mins, i wont be testing this month, the witch got me, all i need on holiday well at least i kinda know i could be having regular cycles?? babydust to all xx

Im out now af came today bang on time , going to spoil myself with a few vodkas over the weekend then gear up for another month of trying.

Af came this morning so I suppose that confirms Ov on day 9. It also makes my cycle 21 days this month which is very wierd for me.
Nutty I'm sorry the witch showed
How's every one else doing? xxx

Gem, nutty and Kayleigh sorry af got you.

Nothing exciting happening here, just waiting for af, I'm due next weekend and I'm sure she'll turn up!

keeping my fingers crossed for you kell x

Thanks Hun! Had a big temp rise today which is always positive but other than that nothing, it'll probably dip again but I'm enjoying it for now lol!

Good luck to Kelly as well! Not sure if your reading here ATM tho. x

How are you doing Kell? How are your temps after the rise?

I went to the docs today because my temps are always low and it can be a sign of thyroid problems which is a major factor in placental abruption and she shouted at me for temping and said leave nature take it's course, easy to say when your not trying for a baby!
I ended up crying she's giving me a blood test tomrrow because she felt sorry for me but I don't think I should have to fight her for it, it's something like 5 times more likely if you have thyroid problems so not a little risk to take and something that needs to be ruled out

Hey Hun, all good here, now 8dpo, my temps are still above the coverline.
Actually they almost look exactly like the month I got my bfp with Charlie! So fingers crossed! Four days till I'm due af!

Silly doctor, I'm glad she's testing you even if you had to fight, hope it comes back all clear for you! When will you get the results? x