I used to get grief off gav for using another forum as he said it was like a playground!!!

but now he knows i love my banda ladies n knows exactly who i mean if i mention certain names!!

he haws no interest himself tho which is gud for me as i banda is my own private get away!!

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My oh's has always thought i was a bit silly for spending so long on the forums and laughs at how involved i get but he's secretly interested too when i tell him stories and mention someone who was ttc is now pregnant.
He would never come on here though..thank god

yeah he sometimes goes "are u goin on there again?!" but knows i hate to check for goss!! i cant use banda on my phone either so if were out n about n i havent had my daily fix - sometimes hell let me use his phone to check!!

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My oh thinks we all come on to have a biatch

My oh the same michelle u tell him something and he acts like he dont give a crap n not listening then few days later he will say something about it lol xx

My OH takes the pee out of me and calls you all my "imaginary friends" .

It used to upset me a bit but after I told him which way is up, he doesn't dare say anything derogatory about BANDA now .

What he still fails to get is the fact that I live 120 miles away from my family for the sake of his job and I get lonely. He gets to leave the house everyday and have adult conversation, the only time I get this is if I go to the park/soft play and nine times out of ten you can't chat because you are chasing a toddler or feeding baby. This is my chance to 'chat' with adults when the kids are napping and it keeps me sane. I can be myself, interact and have opinions here and none of it involves me singing 'old mcdonald' or repeating words over and over again .

Personally I think he's just a tad jealous!

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Simon gets annoyed with me spending alot of my time on here (although at the mo I am at work!! ) and says I am 'addicted' to this place, but then again like today with Libby's rash he said to put a pic on here and ask you all what you thought x

My OH gets all nosey and likes to hear our stories and gove a mans view on things
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usually he refers to it as my " man bashing forum "
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My OH has always accepted it lol, when Moo's down for a nap etc, he gets the lappy out for me

He know's alot of you by name now as i've been chatting to a lot of you since I 1st found out I was pg (thats over 2yrs )

He can't really say anything as he talks to random peeps on his xbox

My oh laughs about me always being on here. I don't actually tell him the name of the forum though in case he slips up and sends other people that I know to the site... Totally something he would do without thinking x

my oh doesnt really know about this one, i just refer to them all as 'the baby site' but i think he likes that i have these cos i come on here while he goes on cod lol
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Myoh doesn't know about it and hopefully thats the way it will stay lol

my OH just lets me get on with it - i give him an earful if he says anything sarcastic !!! x

Mine thinks its slightly weird , if I tell him anything about anyone from here, he just laughs and says they're not real

I think my OH is a bit bemused. When I started adding a few of you on FB he wanted to know how on earth I knew people in England. When I told him Id added people from 'the baby site' he started mocking me like someone out of the inbetweeners saying 'Aww fwiend. Nicki has a fwiend'. He was joking though, I think he knows you guys are real and appreciates the advice I get.

He sometimes asks what the latest scandal is. Dont think he too interested. He doesnt mind me going on here while he watches boy films. The only time he gets ants in his pants is if im hogging laptop all night and he wants on to cafe world pmsl!

my hubby posts on here from time to time (although i do ask him to try and remember to say its him and not me!) he has now taken over the trivia quiz and is in heated rivalry with pixel haha
im not bothered, im not going to say anything on here that i wouldn't say to him and he doesn't read the more serious posts although he was most amused at the major banda versus ab scandal

ferg just leaves me to it. he does ask bout scandals and calls it my personal soap. like corrie etc

My OH isn't bothered cause it means he gets to hog the remote! He does ask about people I have mentioned and what's happening! But that's as far as it goes really! He has asked me if I have posted about the worries I am having with bumpage and what replies I have had about it! He knows it stops me stressing and getting bored so his theory is if I am happy then so is he!

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yes gav was very intrigued with AB vs BANDA!! Altho i cann u my banda ladies - he wudnt have a clue wat that meant! x

i could swear i posted on this thread but can't find the post!

sam is great, he'll ask if there's anything good on here and show an interest...but he's met alot of the banda/ab girls and has memberships on both sites...he's an honourary 'banda girl'

My oh Only knows it as my baby forum. We both belong to a Cyprus forum and he logs into that daily but he never posts, if he feels strongly about things he asks me to do it as he says I'm a forum expert. I did tell him all about the ab v Banda when it all started, he didn't seem to be interested.

He always asks if there's anything interesting going on! I always say no as Id have to start explaining.

There are a few things that I have told him about though and he does ask for updates.

Mine just lets me get on with it,
I used ab alot when i was pg with Alice and now i use BandA to catch up with all the lovely ladies i met on there in more of a social capacity.

he says i am addicted but it means he gets to watch whatever he wants with no complaints.

i probably spend too long on here but its this or some sheeite on the syfy channel!

NO CONTEST!!!

He used to roll his eyes when I used to come on here and AB, but he has met a few of of you now and he knows this is now a big part of my life, not just about baby stuff but stuff in general.

I used to spend a lot of evenings on my own due to his shifts etc so this has become a big part of my routine LOL!!

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