dont you just hate people that ask for advice and then u give them it and they totally throw it back in your face!! i have a "friend" who had a baby in october and she's b/f him and shes waking him every 3 hours still to feed him during the night. hes over 14lb now so is thriving but shes complaining that shes so tired. she asked me for advice and i said just to leave him to sleep cos if hes hungry he'll tell u soon enuf.

next thing shes like "yeah amy but its not that easy. i worry about my son - im b/f and u only bottle fed" as if shes better than me cos shes still b/f!

argh i guve up -= im not gonna bother anymore!

arrghhhh! I'd be pissed off too!

If her BM is THAT GOOD then he should be fine to sleep!

Omg why is she waking him? Let the poor sod sleep, and that comes from an exclusive BF'er of 13 months!

It's not Holly again is it hun? the one who kinda caused all the hooha on your status that time? She sounds like a delightful 'friend'

Tell her piss off - if she want to make herself tired for no reason good luck to her but everytime she moans just rub it in how wonderful it is to have a baby that sleeps - silly bint!

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i take my hat of to those who b/f ,,, part of me regrets not even trying it to be honest but it really does my head in when those who formula feed have it thrown in their faces

in terms of night feeds ,,,( dont shoot me please as i wouldnt know ) but i assume it to be easier for b/f ,,, i hated having to get up go down to cold kitchen make up a bottle ,,,,,sometimes wished could just whip out my boobs in the warmth of my bedroom

Debs wrote:

It's not Holly again is it hun? the one who kinda caused all the hooha on your status that time? She sounds like a delightful 'friend'

Yeah debs it is!!! She does my head in. I wrote on my friends wall saying id had a gr8 day yesterday cos we took the babies to sensory play and she comes butting in (were all mutual friends so can obv see on the news feed) trying to arrange plans for a tuesday to go to sensory play with the other girl when she knows im at work and cant go. I dont mind if they go together - just dont butt into my conversation.

Then she always goes on about how cute and gorgeous her baby is (i know all mams think this but she takes it to the extreme!) and said summat the other day about how babies arent cute anymroe when they get older - totally trying ot have a dig at me and alfie! how dare she say my baby isnt cute!

Not having to get up and having milk on tap is a complete joy of BF hun. I would have gone loopy having to get up and go downstairs so often xxx

Block her hun, what a rude bint!

i would never have woken ava up to feed thats madness!

she sounds like a complete biatch i don't know how you can put up with her.

There's no need to go downstairs at night when bottle feeding!

I had a bottle warmer upstairs, so took a bottle of water up, added the powder when needed and it was warm by the time I had put a clean nappy on her!

she is so annoying.makes plans to go somewhere and when youve just left the house to go meet shell text you saying the babies just fell asleep (!) or shes tired so cant come.

tbh i cant really be arsed with her anyway so her loss!

i had a bottle warmer with my first and found it the most awful thing in world took an age to warm bottle plus i always had to change bum after bottle ( and waken child whilst doing so ) as guaranteed a shitty nappy throughout bobo time

Definately her loss hun - I reckon she was lucky to stay friends after the last episode . She'd have been a gonner if she was my 'friend' and how dare she imply that Alfie isn't cute! he's adorable!

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thanks Debs I know lol!! he is the cutest! even if that was wat she thought she shudnt say it when she knows its directed at me!

i just gonna ignore her in future from now on - take her with a pinch of salt x

She sounds like a div. Every time you speak to her make sure you say "ooo i had a really lovely sleep last night" You could also add "i am so glad alfie sleeps through, its all thanks to bottle feeding" xx

Lol why ask for help she clearly doesnt want it xx
If a babys hungary theyl wake for it poor baby xx

Kate wrote:

She sounds like a div. Every time you speak to her make sure you say "ooo i had a really lovely sleep last night" You could also add "i am so glad alfie sleeps through, its all thanks to bottle feeding" xx

I was going to say something similar babies of that age don't need to be woken up every 3 hours poor wee mite xxxxxxxxxx