sorry naughty af showed for you ladies I have been peeing all day really little bits not sore or stinging or anything like that just bursting to go then a bloody dribble I never get headaches well guess who has a headache and I feel really emotional in a sad way just want to cry ??? Usually happens when im due on either emotional or the cramps and pains !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Aww not our month than Mandy, sorry she got you too, we really should meet up, you're only 8 miles away from me!

Sorry af has shown for you ladies... fingers crossed for next month xx

Yeah, it sucks but I have a good feeling about May for us both!

It would be absolutely lovely to meet up some time! Maybe a play date at Horton farm one day? Am around Tuesdays and Wednesdays most weeks.

Mandy xx

I have Tuesdays off so they're good for me. will pm you and sort something out x

cool x

Well today I have had a headache ALL DAY and I never get them Also desperate for a wee then when i go hardly any there :/ lol 4dpo (i think)

Hi ladies - we'll I am 9dpo (i think ) and have given up on the symptom spotting etc. If it happens it happens

Although, here are a few I can't ignore lol
- Have had this mass break out of spots I look awful (but is probably linked to the next symptom )

- I have been having major cravings for chocolate. Don't get me wrong I love chocolate as much as the next person..but I'm shovelling it in..even when I'm not even hungry, i'm making myself sick

I've had a bit of tieredness, but otherwise I feel great..untill I look in the mirror and see the spots

But like I said - I refuse to get worked up about it now, i'm actually convincing myself I'm not and am eagerly waiting for af - its easier that way . (roll on next week )


Good luck to all

Will you wait to test Zee, or do it as soon as af is due? Good luck to all of the ladies still in xx

I'll probably wait Laura. My 1st cycle since coming off pill was 37 days and last months was 36 days..so will probably wait the 37 (maybe 38) days..or may just wait and wait and wait and wait a bit more

Its so hard, isnt it.

On the Lily cycle, it was a 47 dayer! It dragged! Mine used to be between 31 and 47 days, but generally averaging around 40 days.

If I ov'd when I think I did then I am due on next Wednesday/Thursday.

Although we are not actively ttc at the min - which prob means I will fall pg this month! gulp x

hahaha todays symptoms ............ dull lower back ache still needin tiny wees that feel like im about 2 burst and OMG I could eat a scabby horse lol

Well my spots have calmed down now

May latest 'symptoms' are
-extreme bloatedness for past 3 days
-odd twinges, low down in my fuff

Am really not reading anything into them, it could just be water retention and af on her way...we'll see.

When are you going to test Zee?

Today I still got a 1-2 on clearblue digital, so either it aint gona be good or I ovulated later than I thought and got my faint positive at around 3wks +2 or 3, so maybe only 10 days post ovulation. Tbh though in some ways I wish I hadnt tested early. I kind of feel sometimes its better to be ignorant.

Just thought id let you know but incase you desperate to check! Eeek, everything crossed for you! xxx

Well My LMP was 8th March and my cycles have been 36/37 days long previously..so I was going to wait it out till mid to end of this coming week to see if af shows. If no af by friday i'll test then.

What made you test early? did you just have a feeling or was af late?

I'd wait another week (7days) and test again if your unsure hun. Have you been to doc's yet? They could possibly do bloods to make sure hcg is rising ok if your worried. Could be that you ov'ed later than you thought though. xx

OMG my LMP was 8th March, we could have the same due date if they went by that

Tested on Tue as it was day AF would have been due I think if I had 28 day cycle (8th march was 1st AF since coming off pill so id no indication of how long my cycles were). Pre Caitlin they were closer to 34 days though.

Sort of decided to on a whim almost. The weekend before id been eating loads, and craving sandwhiches, cereal.. carby type things, my boobs were a bit tingly too early last week but not so much now. Could easily have dismissed that but and nearly did.

Started a diet on the mon and was walking in the evenings with my friend. On tue after our walk she joked that she had a feeling id do something dramatic like get pg to get out of my diet. Did test sort of to prove I wasnt and got very faint positive, if my friend hadnt checked it id nearly have said it was an evap line. She said she just had this feeling recently id be pg by summer..... weird. I wasnt expecting it for some reason.

Now iv cramping/stretching pains and dull back ache. My hair I think is greasier too and iv a huge spot on my forehead. Im bit worried about the cramping but hey ho, just need to relax.

I feel for you all ttc, symptom spotting is a nightmare. Symptoms come and go and are so like AF feelings. Mother nature is a bit sneaky! x

Ooops just realised I didnt answer last part.

Yeah I have thought about going to dr's but kind of decided I didnt wana annoy them until I was at least 6wks going by LMP. I prob did ovulate late, fingers crossed. Im trying to hold out testing again until wed and am praying for a 2-3 on the digital as it will be a full week since my 1st 1-2 one. Then wait another week and pray for a 3+ on digital and then i'l ring dr

I suppose if I really am only 3/4 wks there's very little a blood test would show that the clearblue tests wouldnt, and the bloods at dr's wouldnt make it stick if it wasnt going to

Aww, snoopy try and think positive hun. I just thought they may do blood tests and again a couple of days later to show that the levels are rising nicely rather than doing your nut in waiting weeks for the clearblue result to show 3+



We I'm quite certain that AF is on her way. I have really bad af cramping and am extremely irritable today too

Have just curled up on the sofa with my 'comfies' on feeling sorry for myself

Think next month I might try the opk's and see how we get on with them.

Did AF come then Zee? Hugs if it did . Iv never tried OPKs but from lurking in other pg forums they seem quite popular, I think you can buy them cheap online.

I tested again on tue morning and got a 2-3, that was the 1st time id used fmu so that may have made a dif. Happier that things are going in the right direction anyway.

Hope your doing ok and you dont mind me pestering you! There's a similar message for you in member messages lol. You're miss popular atm!

Haha, just replied to the other one. Still no AF and no BFP either Its just a waiting game I suppose.

Am glad things are going in the right direction for you. I'm really happy for you

Hi girls,

Well Im officially in 2ww now, not hopeful in anyway this month feeling very negative. Had a + ov test on wednesday so did the deed then but yesterday had another + and bad ov pains but didnt bd. Must try harder next month , good luck to everyone else.

Aww, Nutty..If you did it wednesday and you were getting ov pains yesterday I'd have thought that be a good thing, the little swimmers will still be there Good luck hunni



Well AF stilll a no show and have said i'll poas on Monday if she still not here. Anyhoo, today I went to the loo and sorry but here is a alert - but there was, what I can only describe as a blob of snot It was white in colour (with a tinge of pale green if I put it up to the light lol) and kinda jelly-like
Can anyone shed any light? has anyone else had this?

I dont know if its the same thing, but either the cycle I got pg with Caitlin or the one before that I can remember going to the loo in work and there being a pretty huge blob of thick white jelly stuff. Honestly it was about the size of a 50p and iv no idea how I didnt feel it coming out.

No clue what it was but just though id share incase it a post ovulation/implantation/cervix closing thingy.... or it could just be that we both dont wash our lady bits well enough

Pmsl Snoopy
Speak for yourself

It wasn't the size of a 50p thats for sure, but it was quite noticeable on the loo roll.
Quite baffling, cos i've never had it before

LOL seriously, if id been 9 months pg Id have thought it was my show starting.

You doing the wipe and check thing I take it? Cant wait til monday!!! Everything crossed for you x