Im having a really naff week and I cant seem to shake myself out of feeling really rubbish.

Aimee has got a heart scan on Friday afternoon, and we already know not to expect good news (after her last scan in May).

I havent slept properly since the weekend, probably because I am so anxious about Friday.

On top of all that, the third trimester 'nutter' has come out in me and im feeling bitter and twisted at the world, for not reason.

Hopefully getting it off my chest will help x

aww hun im not surprised your feeling a bit naff, it must be so worrying for you. i really hope the scan goes well, takecare xxxxx
ps have a good cry, usually helps a bitxxx

A good cry prob would help... I dont think it is going to be long until I do.

Im so sick of some people though...

My friend is pg and has bombarded me with texts every day and sought reassurance from me, which I have given. She text me asking what was wrong and I explained that I am tired, prob because I am worried, and she just dismissed it.

I am actually livid! Even my OH has commented on how much she keeps texting me for reassurance and is getting sick of her. He will be so angry when he gets home and finds out that she has just dismissed it.

x

aww hun thats very insensetive of your friend, its times like this you realise who your friends really are. well you know us lot are here anytime you need a chat or reassurance tc xxx

i think the third trimester nutter is quite entitled to smack her in the bloody face Laura, i cant believe anyone who is pregnant can dismiss any other pregnant womans concerns!

i cant believe Aimees scan has come around again already. i remember the last one she had and september seemed ages away.

i hope it isnt as bad as they fear i know they said it wouldnt improve.

do you find out the next course of treatment then from fridays appt???


Big hugs lovely, have a good cry, i reckon i am verging on a nervous breakdown if i dont hurry up and get this freaking house sorted, so i may join you hunxxxx

Laura wrote:

A good cry prob would help... I dont think it is going to be long until I do.

Im so sick of some people though...

My friend is pg and has bombarded me with texts every day and sought reassurance from me, which I have given. She text me asking what was wrong and I explained that I am tired, prob because I am worried, and she just dismissed it.

I am actually livid! Even my OH has commented on how much she keeps texting me for reassurance and is getting sick of her. He will be so angry when he gets home and finds out that she has just dismissed it.

x

awwww hun, i have a friend that does the same and it's such a p*ss off!!

i can only imagine how nervous/worried you must be right now...i really hope the scan goes better than you expect... we're all here if you need anything at all...even if it's just a lil whinge!

Cant blame you for feeling irritable, most pregnant woman are at 28 wks anyway without he stress of worrying about Aimee

Hope you get some good news, or just not bad news!

x

Awww, thanks ladies you have all made me feel better already.

We dont expect it to go well on Friday as her femoral pulses were weak in May, so it is likely to be the same, and her cardiologist will decide what action to take.

Its not until Friday afternoon though, so I dont know what decisions he will make, or if he will want to go back and speak to his team in Oxford before confirming.

Hopefully he will look at my big bump and take pity on me and tell us what his thoughts are!

x

aww u must be so worried no wonder ur feeling like that i hope the appointment goes well x
i cant believe ur in the 3rd trimester already going so quick xx

I hope they can give you some idea, I reckon the waiting is just as bad as finding out

Awww chick! I know exactly how you feel about being 28 weeks already! It's that last final push towards the end now!! After all we are due the same day! Being worried about Aimee must be even worse though, I know I am stressed about Aron but his problems are not in thesame league! I am sure that it will all be ok though and have my fingers crossed that the consultant doesn't make you wait to find out the next step!

Xx

Hope it goes better then you expect on Friday, as for your friend, just tell her to bugger off x

Oh Laura i hope the appointment goes better than expected on friday.
Perhaps just ignore your 'friend' for now, she just added stress by the sounds of things!

Fingers crossed xx

Oh hun your bound to be worried. Tell your needy friend to lay off a bit. You need to look after yourself not sort her out.

Massive hugs xxxxx

Hope the scan goes as well as it can go! Friendship is a two way thing maybe your 'friend' needs to be told this x

i hope it goes well on fri god luck hun x

Cheers everybody. Her appt is not until 3.40pm so I will be lingering around here before it.

x

Everything crossed for Aimee that her heart is the better than it was (or at least the same).


As for your friend just hit the delete when her texts come in. A good friend would support you.

Will be thinking of you tomorrow - hope you do get news that is more positive than you are expecting. Fingers crossed xx

Fingers crossed for the scan hun - sending some hugs

xx