or should i say dick head rant he slipped out that he has been spying on me on ab and here, didnt even think he knew about this place and didnt know how he did??? anyway he has been trying to log in as me and guessing my passwords. turns out hes been logging into my emails god i am so angry, am i not allowed anywhere to chat and let off steam without him goddam spying on me, whats more he cant understand why im so angry

God i would be angry as well. What does he think you are doing apart from chatting to other mummies!

sorry Gemz that's low whats the matter with him??? why is he spying on you?? he's been the guilty one. is that why you are asking about msn?? I cant remember how to do it xx

Dont blame you for being angry - i mean its a mummies site.... not a dating site or anything.... jeez

Omg, that awful, I would go mad if oh ever did that to me! I would be so angry! He needs his arse kicking!

my hubby done this to me i was FUMING like you he didnt know y if i had nothing to hid . im like thats not the point . so to get back at him i changed all his password on his games and even his email account to somthin so daft he will never guess said as he liked hacking he can hack back into his . then HE was fuming lol

Gemz - I too would be fuming, how did you find out??

xx

Id kill my OH too. He sits in living room when im on here watching TV & sometimes asks what the latest mummy scandal is and then just rolls his eyes. Sometimes I think he's being nice & just showing an interest, glad im letting him get on with watching a film.

Id hate it if he read things I wrote but. We all need private space. xxx

Pepper wrote:

Gemz - I too would be fuming, how did you find out??

xx

he basically just admitted it, cant remember how we got on to the subject, but when i was having a go at him for spying on me on her and ab he said he'd found out about this place as hes been reading through my emails...but thats my fualt because i should have changed my email address a while back aparentley as i know he cant controll his self i just find it all so childish, i dont even check his phone or anything, i thought we were past that years ago...im wondering if he's the one with something to hide

minimeg=yeah thats why i need to change my password, not that it matters, i dont discuss my secret boyfriend im obv's hiding on here

thing is i would gladlyt let him read my emails and things, the point is that he's doing it behind my back so for some reason doesnt trust me!!!!! xx

I dont blame you for being so angry.

I think any of us, including him, would feel angry if we were being spied on.

What on earth does he think you say to us

He he!

x

OMG Gemz..kick his ass! Are you ok?? xxx

gemzandboys wrote:

...im wondering if he's the one with something to hide

thats what id think

sorry he done this to you x

yes jen thanx hun, he just makes me so mad that he doesnt understand why im so upset with him

the main thing is coming on here to chat openly, have a mil rant if i need to or something i feel like he's robbed me of my privacy...ok i know that sounds extreme but i dont really have anyone else to vent or chat to, now i cant even vent on here , thing is if im not logged in i cant see the posts, so how is he doing it...must all be through my emails??? well iv changed my password now so hopefully stop him coming on, but why should it be like that???? arrr xx

It shouldn't have to be hun. Usually when people are insecure for various reasons..they feel the need to be in control of someone else's life by snooping. It is a total invasion of privacy and he should be ashamed of himself..especially with this site as your venting area! I do hope you don't ever feel the need to clam up now because of his selfishness. XXX

delete your browsing history every time when you've finished x

its really out of order gemz, he's got no right to be doing it and i would be foaming too.

jesus gem id b well pissed of. what does he think your upto that he has to spy?
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gems that is not on i cannot blame u for being angry x

Thats so not on, I'd totally flip out at him! My Oh doesn't even know about this site mwhahaha