I told a couple of close friends about my pregnancy. Mainly because at the time when I was bleeding they were wanting to make plans and I didnt want to sound rude, so told them.

Anyway, James was just talking to ones of his mates, and it came up about me being pregnant. His mate said he heard from his wife! Im not really friends with his wife, so it is one of these two people who have told her. I just dont know which one, and I know that neither will admit it, especially after how nuts I went about my boss telling people at work.

So, now I cant trust either of them.

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oh no hun that's such a shame when people do that :/ especially with pregnancy news - it's not their's to share in the first place and like you say it means you can't trust them.

Could you tell one of them something and the other something else and see what gets spread? lol

One of them just sent me a text as she saw my facebook status (I put 'hmmmm). So, I told her what was wrong.

She said that this person already knew when she saw her, and it wasnt her.

To be honest, there are no such things as secrets. I am fully aware that people gossip and nothing stays secret. It just bugs me that I am really good and keeping them and dont tell anything to anybody.

Maybe when people start telling me things I should start plastering it over fb, lol!

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so it was the other one then?

start telling her lies to get her into trouble for gossiping lol. I like a gossip now and then but if a friend tells me something and it's important I keep schtum. I know so many juicy secrets about my sisters friends too that I would just looooove to spill to people but would never do that!

Some people just need to be the centre of attention and spreading other peoples news is the perfect way!!