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liberty
Age : 42 Join date : 2011-03-25 Location : Britain Posts : 2753
| Subject: Feel a bit guilty Sat Jul 02, 2011 12:38 am | |
| Have been longing to be a SAHM since I had Jamie. I was in work today (although for INSET not proper teaching) and actually quite enjoyed it which makes me feel a little guilty. |
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GuestGuest
| Subject: Re: Feel a bit guilty Sat Jul 02, 2011 12:43 am | |
| I was exactly the same and got myself into a right state when I had to leave Ellie to go back to work (3 days per week). But after a while I was loving it. Its great being with my friends who I have so much in common with and I love being at work. The days I have with Ellie are even more special now and I always plan our days so that we do something fun so it works well. When Ellie goes to school I will go back full time. Dont feel guilty hun, most of us feel this way |
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liberty
Age : 42 Join date : 2011-03-25 Location : Britain Posts : 2753
| Subject: Re: Feel a bit guilty Sat Jul 02, 2011 1:10 am | |
| I think part time would be the perfect solution but unfortunately can't afford that either (well until oh wins £137 million tonight). Hadn't realised just how underused my brain had become |
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GuestGuest
| Subject: Re: Feel a bit guilty Sat Jul 02, 2011 1:16 am | |
| You'll be suprised at how quickly you settle back into it. Some days I wish I was full time as I do a job share now which is a bit frustrating at times. |
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Mario
Join date : 2010-08-16 Posts : 6252
| Subject: Re: Feel a bit guilty Sat Jul 02, 2011 2:01 am | |
| if oh won lottery i wudnt go back to nursing but id work in something i wanted to do. used my KIT day to use the computer training tracker to update my mandatory training today and got a sister being snotty with me cos pts needed triaging |
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Clare
Join date : 2010-09-13 Location : UK Posts : 3503
About Me! My Name: Clare Status: Mummy Number of Children: 2
| Subject: Re: Feel a bit guilty Sat Jul 02, 2011 2:26 am | |
| been thinking about it myself, just filled an application form in for a new job, which might mean i have to go back to work in sept/oct when i was planing jan/feb.
but its in a school so will be better to have time with kids in holidays instead of childcare.
but i'm already feeling guilty about going back, but i also know that if i dont i'd go mad staying at home all the time, although i'm sure i'd cope if i could lol |
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mariheartselijah
Join date : 2010-08-23 Posts : 8143
| Subject: Re: Feel a bit guilty Sat Jul 02, 2011 2:33 am | |
| i have actually spent the last week looking for work and speaking to my organisation about coming back off casual relief - i love being a mummy but i really really need something else (and i cannot stand being so effing poor anymore). i reckon 16 hours a week is ideal - wtc plus only a couple of days work and enough to get by on....
ask me again in a weeks time when i have done the first 20 hours i have done in erm going on 2 years |
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olliesmammy
Age : 34 Join date : 2010-09-13 Location : Wales Posts : 4970
| Subject: Re: Feel a bit guilty Sat Jul 02, 2011 2:40 am | |
| I've been on mat leave now since I had Ollie so nearly a year. I'm going back in feb but I only work part time 3 hours a day so its perfect for me. I'm really looking forward to it though, I'm bored being at home. Maybe this will change when Amelia does more than sleep/eat/poo |
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MrsDebs
Age : 43 Join date : 2010-08-18 Location : Stockport Posts : 2645
About Me! My Name: Debs Status: Mummy Number of Children: 2
| Subject: Re: Feel a bit guilty Sat Jul 02, 2011 3:14 am | |
| I would kill to go back to work full or part time and I don't feel guilty AT ALL saying that I think it would do us all the world of good. I understand completely that I am very lucky to be in a position to be a SAHM but I'm just not cut out for it, once this wedding is out the way I will go back part time somehow. xx |
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Amy
Age : 37 Join date : 2010-09-05 Location : Sunderland Posts : 2579
About Me! My Name: Amy Status: Mummy Number of Children: 1
| Subject: Re: Feel a bit guilty Sat Jul 02, 2011 7:09 am | |
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