NOT know who the father of their child is?!?!
I know there are circumstances where you may not know - rape for example.
I mean these girls who sleep around and get pregnant not knowing who the father of their child is and then go on TV and tell everyone
Been watching some JK and I am appalled at these people, I remember on there once a girl said there were 10 potential fathers to her child!

Hmm ok 10 fathers is extreme, and Id never go on national TV and say I doubted paternity BUT I can see how someone might have 2 potential fathers.

I dont think that makes them a right @&£%, or a horrible person. Many men sleep about when they young and care free.

A girl could spilt up with a boyf a week later have sex with someone new after a night out and then find out she pg 2 weeks later and have doubts. Plenty of people also sleep with 2 men in same month when they 'dating' but not in a relationship. Im pretty sure iv slept with 2 people in the same month at some time in my younger days.. so there before the grace of god goes me. Contraception should obviously be used but it isnt always 100%.

It isnt an ideal situation, Id be embarrassed if it happened to me but I dont think Id be appalled by them.

I just think people need to be more careful is all x

I too can see how two potential fathers can easily be done. All you need to do is have an affair and wham bam, there you go.



But, yeah, 10 potential fathers is a bit extreme!



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I do mean the ones who sleep around so much btw x
I think that having more than 2 potential fathers is terrible.
Not judging what they are like as mothers though x

I think it's something people are shocked at because not knowing who the father of your baby is is awful but it could have happened to many, many people and they forget that x

I could see how it could happen, when I split up with my ex husband I went on a bit of a manfest, and was dating lots of different people, and although I was careful I guess accidents do happen,condoms aren't 100% effective. If I had fallen pregnant at that time it could have been one of several people, some might not have approved of my behaviour, but I was simply letting off steam, having a bit of fun and not hurting anyone, Does that make me terrible? No I don't think it does and it certainly wouldn't have affected my skills as a mum

I wouldn't however have gone on national tv to tell everyone

I'm like Mandy for pretty much the same reasons. But I'd never in a trillion years go on JK and talk about it. Plus 10 people is a bit excessive even by my standards lol. I've always been careful but as Mandy says accidents do happen as no contraceptive is 100% effective, so I can see exactly how it happens. And it probably happens a lot more frequently than some poor men realise.

My cousin found out she was pg at 5 months gone, and she had 6 potenial dads, and in the end it wasn't any of them but her neighbour from down the road. She is however a massive sl.ag lol xx

things happen, life is like that,

although going on jk is something i dont think is needed

The ones where I am appalled by the lack of care taken is when they sleep with different guys and don't use contraception - I dont mean when they get PG by accident, but when they have given the thought of getting PG ( a massive thing and responsibility) absolutely no thought and admit openly they never use contraception - stupid women!