It's my 30th on Sunday and hubby has organised a surprise tomorrow which involves Stephen staying over at my mums. I've never left him over night before and I'm panicking a bit! I want to be excited about whatever it is he's organised but I think I'm just going to be worrying about Stephen I know he'll be fine with his granny but I'm going to miss him loads which I know is pathetic but I'm hormonal and likely to cry! Someone give me a slap

aww hun, he will love it, and you need to enjoy it, you dont 30 everyday, plus see it as a trial run for when you go into hospital to have little one.

Its not pathetic at all. Jamie stayed away for the first time on Wednesday and I did have a bit of a cry first but it was nice to have time just for me and oh. I'm sure you'll be the same

Not at all silly. You know in your heart he will be fine, but you also know nobody cuddles like mummy cuddles and if he wants you then you will feel bad that he will have had to make do with flapping granny.

This is why Imogen still hasn't had a sleepover and instead I have had many many occasions where I've sat at home in a mood about missing out on something!

I think there has to be a first time for everything and you need to enjoy your birthday. As Clare says, you will need a practice anyway! xxx

ooooooooooh i bet it will be lovely! weird but lovely