Should I start to sell off Amelia's old things, like her old clothes, pram, jumperoo etc? I know it's going to kill me as I'm starting to get teary even thinking about it. I could really do with the money and the space but Dave and I purposely bought neutral things so that they'd do for a second baby regardless of gender and it distroys me inside to think that I may realistically never have another baby

I've made th decsion to get rid of all Amelias things because if I cant have another baby I know they will just upset me further down the line. I'm not a keeper though and I rarely keep anything.

On a different note though if you do have another baby in the future your new bloke may not be keen on using things you and Dave picked out together x

lisa you have years and years to have another baby and i am sure you will. Personally I would get rid of it as if you have a baby with a new partner i would rather choose new things together rather than stuff that you chose with Dave xx

You're both right, I know you are. It just makes me so sad to think that there was the possibility of having another little baby using it all, and now there isn't. It's going to be so hard

I know it's hard hun. I've just bagged up all the stuff amelias outgrown for now. WHen I did Ollies I nearly had nervous breakdown about it. It was awful x

Oh bless you hun. I shouldn't be complaining when I think about how hard it must have been for you

Awww hun dont be silly. I think it must be harder for you in a way because youve got so many memories attched to them. Not only of Amelia but of the good times with you and Dave. Let me know when you sort them all out, I'd like to have a nosey. A girl can never have too many cothes lol x

I deffo will hun. There will be quite a lot od stuff I imagine as Amelia had the whole M+P range lol x

I think you are doing the right thing getting rid hun.



I also think that when you have another baby (and im sure you will) your new fella will want to choose stuff together, not things that you chose with Dave.



It must be hard hun xx

I agree with what the other ladies have said also when the time comes with a new partner to have another baby i'm sure you will have lot's of fun baby shopping for all new but i think they would deffo want to shop for new especially if it was there first baby etc

ladies above have said it all really.

i know how hard it is to do it though, i let go of rich's stuff thinking there would be no chance of me having another then, i actually donated all richards too teenage moms, probably should of sold it, but i just wanted rid then,

but now with lucas we brought all new and im pleased we have, the things i brought for rich are one out of date and i wouldnt want a baby in something that had been stored for so long.

sell them all and buy amelia something amazing with the money, maybe a keepsake for a reminder

I would sell it, it doesn't mean you won't have another and then when you do you'll have the excitement of picking out new things with your new man x

I agree with the other ladies. Oh wants to get rid of all callums bit even tho i wanted to keep them for another but he says even if we do have another boy i wudnt put him in the same clothes id wanna buy new which is true x

I think all the ladies have said what I would have said hun

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