So Oh has been buying lots of fishing bits as he has a fishing trip coming up. It got us into an argument because he literally buys himself anything he wants without an regard for anyone else or thinking about what we need. I never buy myself anything because after he's finished spending, most of our disposible income is gone, and i'd rather use what we have left i'd rather use on the Boys.

So after an explosion he's said when he gets paid in a couple of days its MY turn to spend a little money on something i want for a change! So i'm rolling with it! But what to buy? I could do with some new clothes, but i'm desperate to paint the house! or i could just save it for a date night for the two of us, or i could buy 2-3 charms for my pandora braclette.

What would you do?

I would deffo not spend your treat money on the house OR a date night for the two of you - he should do that

I vote for clothes AND charms. lol

I'm voting sometin JUST for you. So either charms or clothes or both will be fine

Lol Jade, my thinking behind painting the house is because its something i really want but he's not so fussed about, so it would be something for me!

But i understand what you mean!

deffo clothes and charms if u spend it on the house then ur actually doing it for all of you this is about treating yourself.xxxx

CLOTHES CLOTHES AND MORE CLOTHES..and maybe a 1 charm xx

clothes and charms all the way x

Arrh hun, when i have money i would rather spend it on the house or noah. but i do treat myself as well.

i would go for a new winter wardrobe x

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I would spend it on yourself x

I think I would get the paint for the house. We have just finished ours and I feel so relaxed and happy now its finally done, so it was worth every penny x

hmmm tough one, if it was me i'd say a few items of clothing to get me through winter and then to finish off the house

i'm voting on some charms or clothes or something like a pamper session

Clothes!! I love clothes shopping!! x

Clothes all the way for me.

House paint should be a joint thing and isn't a treat and it's him that should be taking you out on a lovely date as he's got his fishing trip to look forward to.

I don't buy pandora charms - that's another job for oh!

Just go out and buy some clothes and think about what makes you happy!

id vote a nintendo ds...but seeing as thats not on the list id say clothes x