argh mike was due to finish work at 5 , he is working lates rest of weekend , i thought great , and said we will just get a takeaway and chill out then ill get a shower in peace tonight ( a rare thing , i mean in peace lol ) he rathered this than my original idea of nipping into town and getting some food in
he has just phoned an hour before finishing to say oh im going back to work at 7 till 10 !
arsehole !!! he claims there is noone else to do it , my arse ! there is 5 other ppl that could lock up but typical fridday night noone wants to work
he does it all the time , never considers i might have made plans of my own , i appreciate he has to work but at times i think he doesnt like to say no and the piss is taken a bit !
its going to be a cold 2 hours when he is home cos i am so mad
maybe am over reacting and basically have spat the dummy out but right now i dont care , i love my kids to bits but is nice to have someone here that they can run to instead of climbing my legs , be nice to have some adult conversation

Aww Hun, is he thinking extra money or Xmas, I know russ is t mo and is working extras at weekend to get a bit more in pay packet.

But yeah would annoy me too when you had made plans and then he goes in. Xx

nah he aint doing it for xtra money , he really does not like to say no, as i say he does it all the time , he fails to say no to them which means at he lets me and the kids down with plans

My hubby has just basically done the same thing meant to finish at 5pm, 4:45pm txt to say he has too stay on, who knows when he will appear, I spat the dummy out too Hun, I totally know what you mean, baby and toddler conversation is only so good for so long!

Sending hugs xXx

Ugh I know how you feel. Used to happen to me all the time. Used to drive me up the fricking wall! Hope you get some peace tonight x

Ooooh that would really bug me.

I dont think James would dare do that unless he really had to as he knows its not worth the grief he would get. Maybe you need to give him a bit more grief so he thinks twice next time.

x

Shayne does that too! Cept..he's his own boss! Make plans..I have to break because last minute he claims that there is an emergency..or a call out. As soon as I show I am upset..he jumps in - well...you do like to eat and have a roof over your head..he's lucky he is on the phone when he says that sorta shit. As I would seriously take a flying leap..get some air..and attach my foot to his bum! I hate that I have to go to ALL the parent /school meetings..dance meetings..any meetings involving the kids by myself all the time. I guess my revenge is "spending" his emergency and call out funds! Payback's a biatch..and her name is Jen!

I use to get it quite oftern but i think hes realised now they take him for a mug x