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mariheartselijah
Join date : 2010-08-23 Posts : 8143
| Subject: siblings? Thu Jan 05, 2012 8:50 pm | |
| soooooooo as im sure you are ALL quite aware i am fairly broody part of that being that i am getting SO OLD, and another that i would like elijah to be quite close to his sibling/s and i am worrying that if i leave it too late i will regret it as they will be too seperate (i.e eli will be off at school etc and won't feel as included?! am i mental?). but unless some drastic changes happen soonish it's looking like i will have to embark on a career of some kind again and get our little family settled somewhere and so being pregnant this year might just not be practical again...so elijah would be 3 or 4 by the time another baby may come along... what do you think of that gap? we had kind of decided that eli being about 3 was probably fine but i didn't want it to be much later - i am quite sad at the idea of 4! and what if i wanted more after that, what if i am all shrivelled??!!! yes, i am probably being selfish but is 4 years a bit long for an age gap? |
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Mrs Cruise & Dee
Age : 43 Join date : 2010-08-15 Location : dreamland ! Posts : 5016
About Me! My Name: Status: Mummy Number of Children: 3
| Subject: Re: siblings? Thu Jan 05, 2012 9:09 pm | |
| personally i think 4 years is too long ( coming from someone with an 8 year gap between 2 of hers ) i loved having my older 2 so close as they are still close now , loved the no huge gap between them in terms of school and although a bigger gap im loving the fact D and little man will only have near 3 years gap saying that ,,,,,,, 8 years gap has meant that i was much more wiser, patient etc |
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XxCHARnNOAHxX
Age : 36 Join date : 2011-03-25 Location : West-Midlands Posts : 2447
About Me! My Name: Charmaine Status: Mummy Number of Children: 1
| Subject: Re: siblings? Thu Jan 05, 2012 9:26 pm | |
| I would like to try now so there will be a 2 1/2 year gap but noah will be near enough 3 when i have my next. I dont want it any longer than that. Then when they are both at school can concentrate on my career an then maybe have another when i am 30 which will be a big age gap pmsl. But i might decide 2 is all i would likex |
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mariheartselijah
Join date : 2010-08-23 Posts : 8143
| Subject: Re: siblings? Thu Jan 05, 2012 9:36 pm | |
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- personally i think 4 years is too long ( coming from someone with an 8 year gap between 2 of hers )
i loved having my older 2 so close as they are still close now , loved the no huge gap between them in terms of school and although a bigger gap im loving the fact D and little man will only have near 3 years gap how close are your older two? god maybe i should have started having babies 10 years ago and i would have more options now char if i leave it that long i will be into my 40s panic panic panic... |
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liberty
Age : 42 Join date : 2011-03-25 Location : Britain Posts : 2753
| Subject: Re: siblings? Thu Jan 05, 2012 9:54 pm | |
| I like the idea of a two year age gap. There's just under that between me and my sister and then less again between her and my youngest sister and 31/2 years between me and the youngest and we all got on really well. My niece and nephew are two years apart as well. OH had a bigger gap with his brothers and they don't get on (but then my in laws are idiots which is probably why). Actually thinking about it he got on better with his youngest brother and there's at least 5 years between them and it seemed more as his youngest brother has nf which makes him seem younger than he is so I guess it doesn't have to matter
Saying that two years for Jamie means trying soon and I don't want that. I think we're going to aim for a three year age gap although partly because it works better financially (he'll have 15 hours free then). However, when it comes down to it I guess you make whatever you have work for your family. I also wouldn't worry too much about age. We're the same age and I reckon I've got 5 years before I'll start to panic. |
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Jade
Age : 40 Join date : 2010-09-07 Location : Cyprus Posts : 3594
About Me! My Name: Jade Status: Pregnant Number of Children: 1
| Subject: Re: siblings? Thu Jan 05, 2012 10:45 pm | |
| There is 5 years between me and my sister and we always got on great and as I was older I could help out a bit more.there is 2 years between my youngest sister and middle one and they fight like cat and dog. |
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mrsmb
Join date : 2010-09-08 Location : up north Posts : 1345
About Me! My Name: Kim Status: Mummy Number of Children: 2
| Subject: Re: siblings? Fri Jan 06, 2012 12:32 am | |
| I love having a small gap between my 2 but hubby and his 2 sisters have 3 years between them all and they all get on really well and his mum said she liked that gap and it worked well. I want another one now! xxx |
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Mrs Cruise & Dee
Age : 43 Join date : 2010-08-15 Location : dreamland ! Posts : 5016
About Me! My Name: Status: Mummy Number of Children: 3
| Subject: Re: siblings? Fri Jan 06, 2012 12:58 am | |
| there are 21 months between my oldest 2 mari |
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Jade
Age : 40 Join date : 2010-09-07 Location : Cyprus Posts : 3594
About Me! My Name: Jade Status: Pregnant Number of Children: 1
| Subject: Re: siblings? Fri Jan 06, 2012 1:19 am | |
| Mari I think you should just let nature decide when is right |
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mariheartselijah
Join date : 2010-08-23 Posts : 8143
| Subject: Re: siblings? Fri Jan 06, 2012 5:54 am | |
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- . I want another one now! xxx
you're nuts!!! how would you even stay alive with 3 tiny babies not after it took us 2 weeks to conceive jade |
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mrsmb
Join date : 2010-09-08 Location : up north Posts : 1345
About Me! My Name: Kim Status: Mummy Number of Children: 2
| Subject: Re: siblings? Fri Jan 06, 2012 7:12 am | |
| Oh but they're just so cute! I want loads of them! I wish you'd stop being sensible and just have another one! |
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Mario
Join date : 2010-08-16 Posts : 6252
| Subject: Re: siblings? Fri Jan 06, 2012 8:37 am | |
| 22 m between mine and somedays its wonderfl otherdays I wondered wtf i shoulda waited a year or two |
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mariheartselijah
Join date : 2010-08-23 Posts : 8143
| Subject: Re: siblings? Fri Jan 06, 2012 9:05 am | |
| haha i will when i have a sodding house! mr.mari says this time he is getting a dog (errrrm no? last time he got a beard, i think a dog is a bit of a leap?) |
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mrsmb
Join date : 2010-09-08 Location : up north Posts : 1345
About Me! My Name: Kim Status: Mummy Number of Children: 2
| Subject: Re: siblings? Fri Jan 06, 2012 9:09 am | |
| Get a dog too! I did chaos! But fun! Please universe send Mr Mari a job so Mari can get a house and have another squishy |
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stephandhannah
Age : 38 Join date : 2010-08-19 Location : Glasgow Posts : 1615
| Subject: Re: siblings? Fri Jan 06, 2012 9:10 am | |
| me and my sis have 4 years between us and we were the best of friends right up until I had hannah then we kind of drifted apart. we are still good friends but we fall out a lot more now. probably due to me becoming less selfish since I had hannah.
but I think 4 years is ok. poor hannah will probably have about a 20 year gap because Im too scared to have another right now
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mariheartselijah
Join date : 2010-08-23 Posts : 8143
| Subject: Re: siblings? Fri Jan 06, 2012 9:15 am | |
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- Get a dog too! I did chaos! But fun!
you're out of your mind!!! you are drunk on baby juice!!!!! |
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mrsmb
Join date : 2010-09-08 Location : up north Posts : 1345
About Me! My Name: Kim Status: Mummy Number of Children: 2
| Subject: Re: siblings? Fri Jan 06, 2012 9:23 am | |
| Haha I'm just overexcited today One born every minute last night tipped me over the edge into major broodyness!!! |
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mariheartselijah
Join date : 2010-08-23 Posts : 8143
| Subject: Re: siblings? Fri Jan 06, 2012 9:30 am | |
| bleargh i can't watch it still i can't deal with the screeching! |
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meandmyboys
Age : 38 Join date : 2010-08-26 Location : scotland Posts : 2023
About Me! My Name: sam Status: Mummy Number of Children: 3
| Subject: Re: siblings? Fri Jan 06, 2012 6:27 pm | |
| there is 2 and a half years between the oldest two and 5 years between finlay and tyler, dylan and tyler are so close and play together alot, finlay wants to play too but is too small for them, they are very good with him, there will be about 2 and a half years between finlay and this baby so hopefully he will have a little play mate and will be as close as dylan and tyler x |
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