Ahh thank hun!! (sorry I only came here for a snoop as I rarely get messages! LOL)
Well we are still together, but I refuse to let things go back to the way they were, I didnt realise how bad things were until I had the chance to reflect. This have lead to some pretty heated arguements, however I now stand my ground and refuse to just let it pass.
Last week he had a huge moan as we had some new doors put on but with the weather the guy had to do it inside and with the planeing this lead to a mess (nothing that couldn't be cleaned) but he hates mess, so when he came home (before the guy had finished) he complained about the mess, so I naffed off out when I picked Lottie up from school, I took the girls to soft play and left him to clean it up!!!
I do want us to stay together, but not like how it was. He uses that fact that he earns more etc and told me if I wasn't happy etc then I should leave the keys, the car keys and bank card and just go..nice eh?? So that last time he said that I very nearly did and now I hope he realises that I deserve better than this, and told him the next time he says it me and the girls are gone. Sorry went off on one there didnt?? LOL
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