with myself really.. I was determined not to give Finlay a dummy as Tyler still has his and I can't see him giving it up anytime soon... well we managed almost 4 months without it but since Finlay stopped his night feeds about a month ago he is still waking in the night, more and more. Only wanting a cuddle but quite annoying.
OH said oh lets try a dummy, so we did and he could then settle himself to sleep for his naps and it was quicker to pop in a dummy than to get him out of bed cuddle him back to sleep and re tuck him in. But now Im really regretting it, if he drops his dummy he's whining every 5 minutes until we can get him into a deep sleep I feel like we've made it worse - certainly not better and it's just pissed me off that I listened to OH .