i should be doing the dishes, or hovering the livingroom, or cleaning the bathrooms or doing some college work, but i'm here not doing any of them, thinking about going to bed.
hmmmmm need to get my arse in gear!

oh and i just realised i have two stars woohoo lol

I should be relaxing after a hard day sorting out and putting stuff on freecycle

I should be seeing to Elijah who is (still and always at this time of day) crying in our bedroom - I have sent hubby in though cos I am beyond tired and just want to go to bed, but no chance!

I should be drinking tea and eating biscuits courtesy of oh...but thats never going to happen

I should be having a bath now and tidying up but i cant be fecked

i should be faffing around with a database of clients, organising who gets billed what this month and sorting out a stoopid repair bill thats landed in my mail box, that is the clients really but is just trying to get out of it, so need to fling their contract back at them cause they clearly never read it right!!

instead im playing with a photo editor lol

Nothing really. This is my free time to do what i want... so here. I guess i could be reading or something more productive but i enjoy this.

I should be doing absolutely nothing
Clocked off for the day

Nada..do it all in the evenings..all I have to do is some grocery shopping this afternoon. House is pretty clean am thrilled to have finally mucked out Madisyn's room! Was the worst room in the house!

Oh Jen i dont envy you cleaning a young girls room! I had to pack my 12 year old sister room for moving, and i tell you it took me fecking hours! worst room in the house by far!

Nope i am allowed on here as football is on xx

Kell wrote:

Oh Jen i dont envy you cleaning a young girls room! I had to pack my 12 year old sister room for moving, and i tell you it took me fecking hours! worst room in the house by far!

6 garbage bags full of crap. I picked thru every barbie shoe..combs..little doll outfits...you name it to sort out her toys. Then scrubbed down her walls..touched up her furniture with paint..washed every article of clothing and organized her drawers..and hung up clothes in her closet. Got on my hands and knees and washed the floor. I even took apart the floor register and washed that out. Then threatened her life after it was all done that if it ever gets like that again..I will put her in the storage shed to live! Her room was worse than Matt's..the 16 year old stinky one!

Me too Zee!!!

Jen - how did you manage all that with a LO??

xx

I do it all at night! With Makynlee it's impossible as she would tear apart everything during the process. I manage to get laundry done and kitchen living room cleaning during the day and make dinners..but for the deep cleans..like bathrooms..steam cleaning..has to be done when Shayne is home.

LOL - Abbie is the same....I walk around after her tidying up...and walks around after me undoing it!! LOL

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Well I should be spending the evening with OH but stupid me decided to try to strike up a conversation about some issues we've been having (see my post) and the imature prick decided he didn't want to discuss it with me , called me a silly biatch and is now sat in the corner sulking. So what I should be doing is ripping him a new arse hole but I can't be bothered so I think I'll stay here with people I actually like.

Jeez - sorry for the rant

xx

Not looking forward to when she discovers what pens and markers do and that the walls are one big giant canvas to express her creativity. Madisyn used black sharpie markers...her drawings and scribbles were mind boggling..but hardly worth having to repaint several walls! LOL!

Debs wrote:

Well I should be spending the evening with OH but stupid me decided to try to strike up a conversation about some issues we've been having (see my post) and the imature prick decided he didn't want to discuss it with me , called me a silly biatch and is now sat in the corner sulking. So what I should be doing is ripping him a new arse hole but I can't be bothered so I think I'll stay here with people I actually like.

Jeez - sorry for the rant

xx

Debs! He didn't!!!!

jenshayne wrote:

Debs wrote:

Well I should be spending the evening with OH but stupid me decided to try to strike up a conversation about some issues we've been having (see my post) and the imature prick decided he didn't want to discuss it with me , called me a silly biatch and is now sat in the corner sulking. So what I should be doing is ripping him a new arse hole but I can't be bothered so I think I'll stay here with people I actually like.

Jeez - sorry for the rant

xx

Debs! He didn't!!!!

Yep! - now you see what I'm up against Jen? It's no friggin wonder his daughter is so imature is it???

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What is he afraid of? Men usually lash out when they know they are wrong and have no idea how to solve it. Sounds like he's just as frustrated..but doesn't know exactly what to do to appease both women in his life. xxx

He is an ostrich Jen - first sign of a problem he buries his head in the sand and hopes it will all go away. If it doesn't go away he resorts to silly name calling and storming off. I would expect this from a teenager but not a 42 year old man. How are we going to raise two kids properly if he wont discuss issues like adults and can't take a bit of constructive criticism? I'm actually worried about the future right now

Anyway sorry to post jack there Kell - going back to the OP - what I should really be doing now is getting my butt to bed - I've had a long few days and a bit of sleep might put a better perspective on things.

xx

Hugs hun! Hopefully he will come to his senses and see that his avoiding isn't doing anyone anygood. Get some sleep! and yes..Clare..opps Kell..teehee sorry for the post jacking toots! xxx

Kell Jen lmao!

Debs you carry on Hun, I feel for you. Hope your oh realises that something needs to give with her. Honestly as a teenager if I behaved the way the do now my dad would have gone mental!!!!

Sleep well! Hope you feel better in the morning! xx