Do you know what Kenty hun I would sod them if its really when you want - give them the option of coming and its their loss if they dont (most ppl who say they cant make it you will find do) Its not like you are going to keep everyone happy anyway so stuff them its your and Sams day and as long as the gruesome twosome are there it doesnt matter... bet the one who say they cant come will all of a sudden be able to come when you carry on
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