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Subject: Ok a real post now. Wed Oct 13, 2010 7:00 am

Well the saga continues.

My sil got in touch yesterday after not speaking to me since last may due to my mother etc. Any way she rand saying she was fed up of being told who she could and couldnt speak to so was getting back in touch as her kids missd mine and she had now fell out with my mother.

Anyway we had a good 3 hr chinwag and from the sounds of it my "parents" havent changed a bit!

Anyway my "mother" rand my brother last night having a right go about my sil so he ended the conversation with you have lost your daughter and now you have lost your son!!! I dont know what will happen between them now cause i havent spoken to my brother since last may either.

But i think i will stay away!! I will let the kids keep talking to them on the phone but this has deffo convinced me that we wont be meeting up!!

Subject: Re: Ok a real post now. Wed Oct 13, 2010 7:18 am

i think that is wise atm but you never know it might change one day x Smile

Subject: Re: Ok a real post now. Wed Oct 13, 2010 7:25 am

will you stay in contact with your sil ? x

Subject: Re: Ok a real post now. Wed Oct 13, 2010 7:25 am

awww hun, i know you were wary but i'm gutted for you and the kids that your mother hasn't changed Sad

i hope one day she really does change because she really has lost so much by losing you and the kids xxx

Subject: Re: Ok a real post now. Wed Oct 13, 2010 7:33 am

Yes Em i think i will stay in touch with her, i never had a problem with her but my brother disowned me along with the "parents" and i suppose she is in the middle so i can understand why she stopped contact. It looks like my brother is now seeing first hand what my "mother" is like.

TBH i dont think she will ever change. They live in their own little cocoon and i am convinced there are mental health issues involved!!

My kids dont need to be around that crap xx

Subject: Re: Ok a real post now. Wed Oct 13, 2010 7:49 am

Oh Mara - I have just seen this looks like somethings just never change!!! You are right your kids are best off far away from her!!!

xx

Subject: Re: Ok a real post now. Wed Oct 13, 2010 7:51 am

Avoid them like the plague! Sounds like they just want to include you again in their hurt games. God..why can't families just stop being dirt bags! Sorry this is happening again hun. xxx

Subject: Re: Ok a real post now. Wed Oct 13, 2010 7:52 am

well i hope your brother apolagizes to you and feels silly !

i hope it all works out xx your family sounds very similer to mine..i often think they have learning difficulties as they just dont understand feeling or emotions and its there way or nothing!!

Subject: Re: Ok a real post now. Wed Oct 13, 2010 8:24 am

Oh god Mara, sounds like your "parents" have learnt jack shit! It's good news that others are beginning to see them for what they are and if you regain contact with you brother and SIL you'll have their support too. God your "parents" piss me off!

Subject: Re: Ok a real post now. Wed Oct 13, 2010 8:29 am

Glad others are seeing what your parents are like hun. By the sound of it you and your kids are better off away from them if that's the way they get on.

Subject: Re: Ok a real post now. Wed Oct 13, 2010 8:33 am

Your instincts were right Wink

- your parents are best avoided for the time being. I wonder is that why your mum wanted contact again recently. Did she realise things were on the verge of going tits up with your brother and wanted to get in with you again before either your bro or SIL did Ok a real post now. 445843

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Maybe your bro will give you the long awaited apology you deserve. All that matters anyway is your fabby little (well big!) family of 6! You have all the love you need. Ok a real post now. 466645

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Subject: Re: Ok a real post now. Wed Oct 13, 2010 8:46 am

snoopy21 wrote:: Your instincts were right - your parents are best avoided for the time being. I wonder is that why your mum wanted contact again recently. Did she realise things were on the verge of going tits up with your brother and wanted to get in with you again before eithe fell out with bro or SIL did ?

Maybe your bro will give you the long awaited apology you deserve. All that matters anyway is your fabby little (well big!) family of 6! You have all the love you need. X

#hey goouch on the 20th Septin tt

You know snoop thats exactly what Ben said when they got back in touch. He said who have they fell out with now? They never bloody mentioned it though!