It really gets my goat when things get trashed on forums!!! Yes go ahead and lock if things are getting heated but I HATE the way things are brushed under the carpet and never allowed to be spoke of eg TRASHED! People that may have asked a genuine question will never get to hear the answers, or see what was written about them....
Even just there now kinkyangel tried to get her say on a new post and within mins it was wiped, never happened in the eyes of AB, we minions dont need to know about it shhhh shhhh....

URGH!!! You all know im talking about AB, but even on this forum things have got a bit carried away, it happens. At least Lisa was able to lock it for a few hrs to let people catch up and not automatically bin it. Its like the fricking forum police gone crazy! We are all adults!

Sorry. Rant over!

I agree, it's probably my nosey side coming out though, I hate missing out lol

Just wanted to add that I think trashing threads actually fuels the whole FB crap and the same issues being dragged up. If people got to read it there wouldnt be all this chinese whispers and spilling over into other forums FB....

I noticed it was trashed within a few mins i just managed to read it x

i still like to go on said forum but it does annoy me when things are locked and trashed ,, i do belive ppl have a right to their say ,, i appreciate that they dont want arguing to be seen by newbies etc but without being allowed to vent, the frustration just builds and the problem dont go away that easy !

It annoys me too!! Which is why I posted what I wanted to say on here!

Although I have to be fair to the MOD in question she did PM me and apologise for having to trash it! I guess her hands are tied with all the rules and stuff on AB!

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I personally think it should've been locked at least for a few hours then trashed cuz others who haven't read what's gone on may bring it up again and again and again. It is like a never ending circle. everyone else has gotten over it but some people are like dogs with bones (not talking about any BANDA Ladies), they just don't know when to let go xxx

Totally agree, yup lock things fair enough no problem with that, but if people cant see what was said like you say it just goes round and round in circles and is dragged up again and again....

pisses me off that, im a nosey bastard though

dilly ,, im like a dog with a bone hence why i never posted my views lol !!! x x x

What actually happened? I feel like i'm missing something? Maybe someone can pm me..
Even though i dont know exactly what happened this time i have been annoyed in the past when threads were trashed. I get that sometimes they need to be locked but i think in the interest of letting people know understand what happened and to go back and re read, as i know i've sometimes felt a lot different about things after an hour to calm down and a reread, they shouldn't be trashed.
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it bugs me too i am just on it, i think i get the jist of it, that is why i dont really tend to post on certain things lol

another reason i never posted on that post was down to the fact i dont post there often now ,, so feel i would look like i was one of these in for the argument type

whats happened now?? im guessing its something to do with the usual suspect? x

I agree that when things get locked and trashed it can fuel the problem and FB sees so much related stuff, hence why AB gets the way it does, but they will never learn - you know banda is apparently a nasty forum for letting things run and not trashing stuf...errrr yeh thats why there are so many frikin arguments eh

I was planning on staying out but I guess I must've been wearing my sexy postmans (or is is post ladies?!?) outfit cuz the dogs got me and dragged me in (but that, my friends, is an entirley different thread pmsl)

yea, i feel that they should lock it, but then leave it up for a day so people can see what is going on.. n then take it down.. its stupid really. maybe they just need to delete her from AB? can people complain to nayone about it?
i wonder how many other forums she is kicking ff on? xx