i love my friends they have all fooked off with there own lives now had kids getting or got married and working. i didn't here from them through my cancer probs.

so now i have no friends now.
any of you had the same thing?

but i do have virtal firends I LOVE YOU LADIES :DDDDD


i need a best friend xx

Yep... I hardly see any of my original friends that I had before I had Aimee.

They do their own thing now and I do mine.

One of my friends really upset me when Aimee came out of hospital after her heart surgery. She had only been out of hospital for about 3 weeks and I said I wasnt ready to go out to town on a night out... and she told me to 'get a grip'. I nearly punched her!

I pretty much wiped my hands of most of them after that.

x

i would of smacked her laura it makes you sick a firend meant to be there for ou and listern also a shoulder to cry on.

when i first found out about my cancer they said oh well your be fine :@ make me angry i have wiped my hands too with most of them i only hear from some when they want to be nosey. x

I hardly see my pre-pregnancy friends, partly because I separated from my ex-husband just before and we had a lot of mutual friends that sided with him. I did make lots of lovely friends again when I had Chloe but now I've moved area again, I find myself very lonely again and with work struggle to get the time to get out and meet new people. I wish I had a girly best friend too.

i know i can go to the sure start center but i know 2 ppl that go and one mycousion who i dont get on with an a old firend and now there best mates and i dont want all the playground talk. x

carrieann&JJ wrote:

i know i can go to the sure start center but i know 2 ppl that go and one mycousion who i dont get on with an a old firend and now there best mates and i dont want all the playground talk. x

If you can hold on until January, after baby is born and I am settled, I will be taking Aimee to some of the groups in Kingsthorpe x

you're better off without them. I rarely see my supposed friends since I've had Ava apart from a few exceptions. At least you have a great OH, son and lots of BANDA friends xx

me too.my so called best friend just abandoned me really when in was preg - prob cos i wudnt go out n get drunk!! shes got 3 kidzs n smoked n drank all the way through all her pregnsncies so she found it weird how i didnt want to drink through mine? i suffered from severe spd and couldnt even walk towars the end and when i had to get induced cos of the pain she turned ound and sid "eeh i didnt realise you were that bad!".

I have a few close friends but its harder to get together now as i cant just drop everything to go out with them with having Alfie.

I now have one good friend who i see at least once a week and try to catch up with others every month.

Tbh tho - Gav is my best friend and i love the time we spend together with Alfie.

And I love my BANDA ladies - who needs friends!!

yeah laura be great....

i know i have a thew like that. i have my banda and thats all i need xxx

I know how you feel! I found out today my so called best mate (Jake and Arons god mum) via FB has got a new fella! It's something you would have thought she'd at least text me to tell me about!!

I need to find some real life friends! Thank god for you ladies!!

Xx

My friends were exactly the same all the people i worked with none bother now and when they do its like callum dont exist which peed me off so i dont bother with them anymore xx

Well it's good to hear (!) that others have the same. My work "friends" are all ignoring me... to be fair I did have a (very polite) word with one of them who didn't invite me to her hen-do, wedding etc. (all I e-mailed was that it was understandable if down to numbers, but a shame she couldn't have told be direct...) so I don't know if the others have taken umbridge at that?!

In hindisght they are a bunch of immature girls who think planning weddings and getting engaged is the be-all-and-end-all - and won't say boo to a goose work-wise either; so on my brief return to work when I was breastfeeding and had run-ins with management, they probably made their own assumptions about that too.

Who knows, if they can't be arsed neither can I - I'm a grown woman and mummy to one and a bit, I have bigger fish to fry (and nappies to change )

Just a shame that I can't seem to find friends who stick around long I don't smell, honest moving across the country didn't help I guess x