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kenty
Age : 39 Join date : 2010-08-24 Location : Leeds Posts : 2260
| Subject: would like to put up a positive post... Wed Nov 03, 2010 5:45 am | |
| but like that's ever gonna happen!! i swear my life is one big drama after another.. a couple of weeks ago i found out my dad was found guilty of having indecent images of kids on his puter back in '04 well when i was down south this weekend he was taken into hospital, looked like a stroke as he had loss of feeling in his right side, his whole side of his face drooped...well that was bad, but after a ct scan it's been announced, he has a brain tumour! no idea how bad yet but he's having tests today and i'm waiting to be updated i should feel upset, this is my dad afterall, but i feel as much as i would do if it was a stranger telling me he has cancer...dunno if the stuff from two weeks back has killed any feelings i had for him, or i'm just emotionally dead in general oh well...there is my drama of the week |
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Suse
Age : 42 Join date : 2010-08-19 Location : England Posts : 3128
About Me! My Name: Suse Status: Mummy Number of Children: 2
| Subject: Re: would like to put up a positive post... Wed Nov 03, 2010 6:41 am | |
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Kell
Age : 41 Join date : 2010-08-18 Location : * Posts : 3652
About Me! My Name: Kelly Status: Mummy Number of Children: 2
| Subject: Re: would like to put up a positive post... Wed Nov 03, 2010 6:41 am | |
| Wow kenty, maybe it's just you've not processed the info just yet?
We all know your not emotionally dead! Far From it, but you have your reasons not to have an emotional reaction to your dad. Maybe your feelings are overridden by what you found out a few weeks back. If they are that's fine!
As clique as it sounds a brain tumour has such varied degrees of seriousness, I hope things work out for your dad and he makes a full recovery x |
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jenshayne
Age : 54 Join date : 2010-08-17 Location : Canuckville Posts : 3290
| Subject: Re: would like to put up a positive post... Wed Nov 03, 2010 6:49 am | |
| Jesus Kenty! How much more do you have to go thru hun? It's time you Sam and the kids get the eff away and move over here! Run away from all the crap! Thinking of you all hun. xxx |
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LisaAdmin
Age : 44 Join date : 2010-08-15 Location : Shropshire Posts : 8964
About Me! My Name: Lisa Status: Mummy Number of Children: 1
| Subject: Re: would like to put up a positive post... Wed Nov 03, 2010 6:52 am | |
| I can't say I am surprised that you have no feelings for this news...its bound to make you numb towards him after what he did
Don't beat yourself up about it, I can't see anyone blaming you at all x |
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kenty
Age : 39 Join date : 2010-08-24 Location : Leeds Posts : 2260
| Subject: Re: would like to put up a positive post... Wed Nov 03, 2010 6:54 am | |
| kell, it's sunk in, i know what he's fighting, one of our best friends died of brain cancer about 3months back but i still feel nothing i swear jen, my life is like a f*cking soap opera and i'm so very very tired of it...i wish i could just come back online and say 'god, that was one boring trip!!' just had a call and my brothers are now pulling out of coming up for the kids birthday party on saturday...out of 4 brothers, only one isn't using this as their excuse to pull out...is it weird that im more upset over them pulling out than kevin possibly dying |
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CarlaAndCallum
Age : 37 Join date : 2010-08-17 Location : Essex Posts : 4673
About Me! My Name: Carla Status: Mummy Number of Children: 1
| Subject: Re: would like to put up a positive post... Wed Nov 03, 2010 7:22 am | |
| I can totally understand why u feel nothing that doesnt make you have no emotiion. |
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Zee
Age : 43 Join date : 2010-08-18 Location : UK Posts : 2968
About Me! My Name: Zee Status: Mummy Number of Children: 1
| Subject: Re: would like to put up a positive post... Wed Nov 03, 2010 7:30 am | |
| I agree with the others hun, you are far from emotionless. Either way we are always on the other end of a lappy if you need to unload |
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tigger
Age : 46 Join date : 2010-08-16 Location : UK Posts : 1122
| Subject: Re: would like to put up a positive post... Wed Nov 03, 2010 7:41 am | |
| God Kenty hun, you are not emotionally dead hun by any means. I think it is probably the last few weeks revelations have had some impact on your feelings for you dad. Thinking of you hun |
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Laura
Age : 44 Join date : 2010-08-16 Location : Northampton Posts : 6084
| Subject: Re: would like to put up a positive post... Wed Nov 03, 2010 8:10 am | |
| Awww hun, nobody can blame you for not feeling anything. You really are dealt a crappy hand of cards and you deal with it so well xxx |
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olliesmammy
Age : 34 Join date : 2010-09-13 Location : Wales Posts : 4970
| Subject: Re: would like to put up a positive post... Wed Nov 03, 2010 8:12 am | |
| I don't know what to say hun but your defo not emotionally dead, we all know how much you love your babies and Sam x |
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Clare
Join date : 2010-09-13 Location : UK Posts : 3503
About Me! My Name: Clare Status: Mummy Number of Children: 2
| Subject: Re: would like to put up a positive post... Wed Nov 03, 2010 8:32 am | |
| hun, its not surprising the person you thought was your dad died when you were told the news a couple of weeks ago.
but i am sending a hug and a cuppa and a cake, (always makes me feel better no matter what) |
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EmzandFlick
Age : 37 Join date : 2010-08-19 Posts : 2251
About Me! My Name: Status: Mummy Number of Children: 1
| Subject: Re: would like to put up a positive post... Wed Nov 03, 2010 8:36 am | |
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kenty
Age : 39 Join date : 2010-08-24 Location : Leeds Posts : 2260
| Subject: Re: would like to put up a positive post... Wed Nov 03, 2010 9:29 am | |
| thanks girls! not gonna find out until tomorrow if it's operable or not so just a waiting game as usual |
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xemplus2x
Age : 39 Join date : 2010-08-31 Location : wales Posts : 1731
About Me! My Name: Emma Status: Mummy Number of Children: 2
| Subject: Re: would like to put up a positive post... Thu Nov 04, 2010 1:57 am | |
| crikey you dont have much luck hun!! hope your ok x |
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