My auntie promised me ages ago that she would sort out some of my nans photos and send me some.
I sent her a message this morning asking how she was getting on with them and she deleted me!
She also commented on my status that said ' don't you love being ignored'
and she replied with 'yes at least then you get left alone!'
She has had her daughters then sent me abusive messages! I asked her how her birthday was and how the family are. I did nothing at all to provoke her.
I must admit that I have since mailed her back with
' Thanks for deleting me for asking for the photos you promised. Now I can see you are too far up your own arse to care about anyone but yourself!'
I know that my nan was her mum and she is grieving. But she keeps telling me that I don't know what she is going through!

Blimey talk about over reaction!xx

Wow what a cow!

hun grief is a weird thing and it does all sorts of things to people.

but is an over reaction

She sounds a bit bonkers!

Surely she should be happy that you want some photos, not reacting like that!

x

She said that I have enough off my Nan when she was alive and she was her mum not mine
She only ever contacted my Nan when she wanted something.
Who was there when my Nan was too ill to bathe,dress,eat??Me and my sister. My auntie didn't even call to see how she was
She planned my Nan's funeral and didn't even turn up!!!! When the vicar was doing the service he kept saying my aunties name and didn't mention any of the family he even called my Nan by my aunties name!!! My cousins were taking photos of the coffin and everything!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She also said that I should be used to being without my mum by now and she only lost my Nan last year x
TBH I think that she had it easier than me. She is nearly 50 and my Nan had been ill for years and she was nearly 90 when she died. I was 14 and in care when my mum topped herself!!!!
They have all been blocked and deleted and as far as I am concerned they are dead to me x