any thoughts ?
,, have just copied and pasted my convo with her as i asked when she was gonna be ttc num 2 ,,,, this is her reply ,,,, forgive the spelling

i have been getting a bit of pain down thee and it can get quite bad and when i was on the pill i kept bleeding even when i would take the pills at the wright time everyday, still got pain the docs kept saying it was thrush lol without evan looking at me but it never went away, i 100% no its not a std, the doc say it could be in infection i have and need more treatment but i need to get tested, that hapend today and that was not nice at all was sore and she made me bleed lol


tbh my sis is a little slow ,,,, all i can think right now is the big C ! ,... we lost our mother to cervical cancer ( she has not even mentoned the c word ,, just testing for abnormal cells ! )

ah i hope its not hun, dont get urself to worried jst yet wait for her results to come back x

I hope she's ok x

im so stressed now ,,, copy and paste what she has told me so far and im so confused , she is not easiest of ppl to talk to ,

kk
will you let me know as son as you know about the tests please?

yea will do there is other test that i get in a week but thats the normal test that every woman gets

a smear ?
thought thats what you had today ?

among other

???

yea that is what i got but they did others

what others ?
and what test you gettin in a week ???

it started as normal then they used something else that looked like a hair die brush that was plasic and was quite sore it cut the inside of me and they needed me to bleed to they could check to see if i had adnormal sells growing

ok so what test you gettin in a week ?

the normal smear
i have to phone to get them and the following wek i get th others through post

Hi.

I get smears every 6 months because of abnormal cells. abnormal cells doesnt mean there is cancer cells there it just means the cells can develop to cancer cells and close monitoring means they notice any changes etc.

also my friend had the type of abnormal cells that needed to be removed as they were close to becoming cancerous. she needed to go to hospital every six months and be given a local anaesthetic to have them removed.

maybe best to chat to her face to face. my mil is like this to unless you sit down with her face to face and ask her things you wont get a straight answer from her.

x

i iwll wait for her to get results ,,, she has asked me not to mentio nothing to our dad ,,, i understand her reasoning
i hate waiting though ,,, we lost our older brothers 1 @ 19 and 1 @ 23 then we lost our mum a couple years later so this worry is ripping me apart

sorry just ned to vent now

it sounds like she had a cone biospy hun! which is what they do if they find abnormal smears i had one and they take smaple of cervix x

Oh no, I'm sure she will be ok.

I have got everything crossed.

She is doing the right thing getting checked though x

i have abnormal cells every other month it feels! i get a smear every 3 months. every time, cells grow back and i have to have them lasered again. the smell is horrible btw. it does sound like a cone smear, possible a small biopsy.

I really hope shes ok hun xx