would like to use stronger word than plonker but think it will be censored lol

They've only been together 6 months but right from the start he has never trusted her. she's never done anything for him to be like htis but he's getting worse and worse. Her ex sent her a message on facebook which she deleted and told him about but he got in a mood with her and wouldn't speak to her for a day about it and now he wants to check her messages on fb and her phone etc in case he gets in touch with her!!

He doesn't trust her one bit and now they live together too. she comes to work with me as we work together and now she lives near me on Mon Wed and Fri and Tue Thur she drives herself to work as we do different hours.
Yesterday he was out but made her ring him so that he could be home when she got there so she "wouldn't be alone" and today and Tusday he's dropped her off at work and he's "working" at my Mum's house (up the road from our work) and he will pick her up when she finishes. she can't see how bad this is and I dunno what to do. this isn't the worse he's done but I'm actually starting to worry that he's mentally abusing her... like not seriously yet but I can see where it's going.

she won't listen to me though she makes excuses for him and she has changed so much

wow imsecure much !

i imagine it will only get worse

hope she knocks some sense into him quick smart or even sees it for herself !

ask her to step out side the box and imagine if it was your OH who was doing it to you ,, would she really see it as just caring ? ,,,, her confidence will eventually shed away to nothing and resent will kick in !
being under a lock and key so to speak with a jealous man is not good
i hope things get sorted x

6 months though ,, maybe she is still in the honeymoon period and sees it as awww how sweet is he !

my sister has changed so much since he she has been with OH ,, she came to me crying as he went off on one about the bathroom they were getting fitted and threw into the argument that she had fat legs !!
she now does not see her friends etc and its heartbreaking to see

it's horrible isn't it... I dunno what to do.

I have asked her what she would do if it was my OH and she agrees with what I'm saying but then she makes excuses for him "oh but he's only doign it becase...."
it's only this one ex he's bothered about ... he doens't even live inthe same coutnry as her...
it's just ridiculous..

I have to say something to someone lol I won't sit back and watch him destroy her. she's only 18 and she doesn't go out anymore she hardly speaks to anyone she never used to let anyone tell ehr what to do or what to weat or who to speak to how to act etc but he can do whatever he wants and she lets him tell her how to be.

grrr