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Of 1 not feeding Hollie!!! And 2 being around people who smoke!!!

I'm so upset just had hv (who hasn't been to see us for 3weeeks!! She never turned up last few weeks) just weighed Hollie she's only put on few oz in 3weeks. She now still only weighs 9lb 4oz (which thinking about it she's put on 7lbs! But on her chart it's flat line. So her exactwords were 'well you've got to think about your daughter. When she's hungry feed her ! Don't skip feeds! I'm sure we had this problem with lillie !!' WTF?!?! 1 no we never had this problem before lillie was a hunger monster & we had no probs what so ever! & 2 what? I feed every 3hours!! Iv never missed a feed, how can you anyway? If she's crying does she think I ignore her??? What then went to say ' know Xmas is coming &your busy but its important you feed he' I was so shocked I didn't know what go say. I feed her Every 3 hours at night it's constant from 8-11 I dot move! I feel like a total failure bf!!! So upset more that she thinks I starve me kids !!
Then went to say Lillies coughing been to Drs as she's so poorly. She then went to say 'well you must be around people who smoke!' what??? No!!! She's got a cold & cough!! It's fricking -10 past night winter people get colds & coughs!! I'm so upset. So upset she thinks that of me!! Poor Hollie I
Just it good enough for her it feels after she said all that she saw I was gobsmacked and she got up and left didn't say bye!! What?!?! I use to like her!!
Rob said I should report her or I should have said something but was shocked.

hi hun,

i would def report her she was totally out of order, hv are supposed to give advice not make a mom feel bad about what they doing.

also if the trainee knows you like she does, then she should not have come on the visit and i would complain about this, i work in the public sector and we are not allowed to visit anyone we know personally, its a conflict of interest.

i would complain about both, hopefully you get some answers xx