I am feeling a bit emotional today. I had hoped that this christmas we would have a little baby on the way and would be buying and wrapping baby pressies. I have been wrapping my xmas pressies today and was wrapping baby clothes for our best mates little boy and it made me kinda sad. I also managed to cut through my silk duvet cover too opps.

AF is just about to rear her ugly head too

soory it hasnt happened hun .. but still no af ?? theres always hope!

if it doesnt happen then enjoy xmas let your self relax and have fun im sure you will get you 2011 bfp x

I feel so sad for you, its so obvious you are absolutely wanting to have a baby and yet it eludes you - don't know how you have coped tbh, you are a strong person!

My only advice, which I've said before lol cos its the only advice I have! Is to stop trying, I know that's not exactly easy, but the more you try the harder it will be, stress and pressure don't do any good...seen so many ladies ttc for so long, then give up and bam they get the bfp

So be told woman! Stop stressing and relax a bit with all this baby making malarky!

I agree with Lisa, my bro and SIL were the same trying for ages, then they stopped cos he got ill and then she got PG. xx

big hugs lovely, sorry iv not posted on your posts only pop in a read only time I get hardly get time to reply. but have been reading.

but chin up lovely, like lisa says I know soo many people who've been trying for ages and ages & no problems with either of them...soon as they give up its happened!! this one lady who goes to baby music with us tried for years and years nothing, went through the whole IVF fell preg with twins. after she was so chilled knowing how hard its concieve she fell preg 3 months after the twins!!
really hope it happens for you hun xxx

Thanks guys think I am going to try and relax next cycle over xmas and the new year and see what happens

and have a drink! or 2!

or a bucket full!! lol

Diane you are doing amazingly well, spend this christmas being proud of your achievements this year and not focusing on the only thing that hasnt happened SO FAR!!!!

ever so proud of you hun xxxx

Aww thanks Jo that just made me cry.

^ what Laura said
New Year, New Start and all that too. xx

Aww, hun. Big hugs

I agree with the others, my friend was ttc for years and when they decided to put on the back burner for a bit as it was causing a fair bit of stress, what do you know they got pg the next month.

I'm having everything crossed for you for a new year baby

I know were not in exactly the same position but I though twe'd be having a baby with us for christmas this year and I've found it really difficult to get excited about it because it's not the way it should be. Me and oh have decided though to make this christmas all about us, be totally selfish and stay in bed till whatever time we want, eat chocolate for breakfast and generally just spoil ourselves.

Maybe you could do the same because it could well be your last christmas as a couple x

Sorry your feeling a bit emotional hun stupid witch dont help either but as already said she still not here always hope but if she does show up then have a bucket full relax and enjoy and u never know what will happen when you least expect it


BFP 2011 Good luck babes XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

olliesmammy wrote:

I know were not in exactly the same position but I though twe'd be having a baby with us for christmas this year and I've found it really difficult to get excited about it because it's not the way it should be. Me and oh have decided though to make this christmas all about us, be totally selfish and stay in bed till whatever time we want, eat chocolate for breakfast and generally just spoil ourselves.

Maybe you could do the same because it could well be your last christmas as a couple x

thats a brilliant idea
(((((((hugs)))))))) xx

No af as yet, she is due today and really though she would be here by now. Know she is on her way though and wish she would just hurry up and arrive.