I ordered 5 nappies off a hong kong seller a while back and they took 6 weeks to reach me. I didnt go through the resolution centre as i was already pursuing a resolution over c's christening dress and eventually they turned up. I left the seller neutral feedback - no negs justneutral saying nic items but slow delivery.

Today i got this in my inbox:

Dear freespirit1402,

Hello,
I’m a woman and mother,I have no job,just work on eBay and sell cloth diaper,but now eBay stopped my business just because of the low BBE,I have no way,I need your help,I have a 11 months baby ,I will lose my job to sell items on eBey,
I am a sincere eBay seller for a long time,I do have sent all items in time,maybe there is something wrong with the Hong Kong air mail,I am sorry for that,I have refund you or arranged to resend items in time, please give me a hand to change your feedback and DSR,so that I can give a better life for my baby, you are also a mother,I think you can understand me, thank you for your kindness.
Have a nice day!

Its actually irritated me this person is trying to fiddle the feedback ratings which is how ebay gives an indication of trustworthiness. Do you think i should just drop it or report it as spam - i aint changing my feedback!!!

Omg Haha nice try though! I would just drop it if it was me, purely coz i couldnt be bothered

Blinking hell, thats a sob story and a half!!!!!

TBH I wouldnt change my feedback hun nor report it - like Terri I could be arsed xxx

have a heart mario, she is a woman and a mother after all

Nope I am a biatch! I would report it!
Xx

I just wouldnt do anything!

Tbh though I dont know whats going on with ebay seller ratings atm but they really are a pain in the arse.......I have no less than 4.7 on any of my 'stars', 98.5%, but I am constantly getting emails saying 'I am below seller performance and need to improve or im getting restricted!

I never sell crap, I only ever sell really lovely stuff, and I always post the next day! But yet still, here I am

xxx

blow
her. Its her own fault
why she
is gettin bad feedback. I+would
report
it
x

pinkyd wrote:

have a heart mario, she is a woman and a mother after all

PMSL and i should understand that of course. Annoys me that shes got 40 negs in that last month so clearly isnt doing her 'job' right so is trying to twist the figures. Ive got way less feedbak than her cos i only sell stuff im done with rather than as a business but ive got a feedbak of 950+ and only ever had 2 neutrals from muppets who couldnt be bothered to contact me to resolve problems and a total rating of 100% os everything else has always been positive. I clearly should have emailed em to beg for better ratings lol

Rather amused to discover who me fellow biatches are though

id egnore her if shes had more than 40 neg fb in past month its her fault may be its a hint to tell her get a diff buisness lol

hmmpph I bet the person sending that isnt a mother at all - probably a factory!

LOL! It's probably a 45 year old man! Tell this person perhaps the diaper business isn't for them and there are plenty of jobs available on World of Warcraft buying and selling gold and items. xxx

You can't change your feedback or star ratings anyway so she's screwed lol

I just looked in my spam flder and theres another one there not sent through ebay but sent to my email. Its now just plain irritating

In that case I think I would report her hun, there's nothing worse than getting hassled from Ebayers. I dont know what her problem is anyway - it's not as if you gave her (if she is a she) a negative.

xx

I'd report it lol

I'd report her.. Cheeky biotech 10/10 for trying though eh..