I have a major stress head on tonight and yet again its about money. I am so fed up worrying about our finances. I am really now regretting financial decisions we have made in the past. I feel like packing my bags and running away, I don't know how the heck we will manage if we ever get a bfp. I stress so much about money every month while oh is so laid back he would fall over.

I really feel at my age I should be in better financial position we have naff all set aside for a rainy day/unexpected bills.

Sorry girls just needed to get this off my chest as it is getting me down.

i think its that time of year?? no on has spare cash. im so with u on the stressing front!! my oh wants to go buying a 3d tv and as much as id like one, its not really a need, just a want and with a wedding to pay for.. well, its money id rather spend else where!!

Hunny, please try not to worry.

i know its very much easier said than done but you will manage.
I am the main bread winner and to go on mat i lost £900 per month, 3 months after having Alice Adam was made redundant and spent 6 months on JSA, we are still here, we managed, we were a bit crazy with the CC and are now even worse of but we are still managing.

look at the things you can do.
EG payment breaks on loans/mortgages, we have a 6 month mat break atm or we would have no chance!

i changed my G&E to quarterly bills instead of DD as i knew we wouldnt have the funds in everymonth but would be able to juggle things to pay them.

there are lots of options hun, try not to panic