hey all any ideas what to do/ (sorr a bit of a long one really)

perrys dad n mum broke up when he was a kid so there for went their own ways..
any how..his dad got with a lady ages ago.. every thing was fine lalala.. but her daughter (who is 24btw~) cant do any thing for her self. cant even wipe her own arse!
she has caused soo many troubles living there n what not. we dont talk to her n what not. any how. after she called paiges a uglyf;;;k fil kicked her out. his oh kicked up and moved out for a day... she moved back in every thing was fine.. no FIL hates her daughter.. n all of their fights and break ups is to do with her she has pulls strings on her mum..

so any how every thing was fine.. n then she wanted tomove back in. FIL said no.. her fault she got kicked out. she has enough money to rent another room.. n then she said she was 11k in dept (her fault. she owns over 26k a year n has nothing to pay for but a car~) so he offered her £600 for a room n she said no. (she also told her mother n him that she is a lap dancer n earns 1k a night.. but i guess she spends it on putting sh't up her nose#)

so coz he wouldnt let her move back in.. his oh got into a strop and moved out..
okay find.. FIL tad upset as you can guess (this happened a few weeks ago) n was like well her daughter aint comming back n can i have the keys n what not. was getting on with every thing,,

so any way i was like okay. FIL and my mum can come over xmas for dinner as they both have to be esle where later on in the day (our place in small) and it all worked out fine..

now.. he just rang perry up drunk sayin he has spoken to her n said that her daughter can move back in!
like WTF?!??!
ive told perry that he should go over there n talk to his dad.. n tell him that she aint moving back in coz she loves him and wants to be back with him. other wise she would of been back.. but only moving back due to having a roof over her head and getting her daughter a free room..

now my prob.. if they do get back.. which im guessin they will now.
they are ALL wanting to come over xmas for dinner..
i dont want her crack head of a daughter over.. and i dont really want FIL misses to come over if she came back just for that!?!?!

i know it might sound self fish.. but im not letting it happen.. but i dont want fights over xmas? why should i let some dog who called my daughter ugly, who cussed down perry and my self come over with her mother who just wants a free ride!!!

any ideaS?

sorry long post but argh!!!

(Well done for getting this far lol)

any ideas? please?!

i would explain to your FIL why you don't want them there but let him know he is welcome, its unerstandable not wanting arguments at christmas but why should you let someone else spoil yours.

Jeez, I don't blame you. I would have knocked her bloody head off!!!

Just tell them either a) you don't have the room for them all, or b) his gf's daughter is a scanky hoe bag and tell them to do one

Personally, I would do option b) but I am always getting myself in strife.

Good luck whatever you do x

LMAO Laura! Just tell him that when giving out the invites for dinner, you only had made plans for him...and if he pushes to make you feel like you have to include his douche bag step daughter..then follow with the reasons why you don't want her there. They say Christmas is a time for forgiveness, but honestly, I'm finding that it allows the aholes in life to get away with murder with the people that are kind and generous. Do not have someone in your home that will ruin YOUR holiday! Whatever you decide, I wish you luck toots. xxx

Mayb when he is sober and has a think he will realise he don't want them to move back in?
If not I'd chat to Fil and explain why u don't want them there and that u feel they r using him

lol thanks guys..

oh trust me if i saw her i would give her a right smack!
im hoping perry will g over there tomorrow and have a right old chat to him. but there is no way of having her hear,.. if they do get back together im just going to point out that i dont have the room for every one and that they will have to see paige xmas eve as round mil's boxing day,. argh why cant things be simple?!!?

Maybe do invite her..just to beat the crap out of her! Will make a Christmas family story to pass on down to future generations!

haha jen i want to stay in my home for xmas not a cell! nah i would make a stand if she came with in three foot of my home!

ill deffo push perry to go round there tomorrow n have a chat as he feels the same as me x

Pillow case filled with soap bars...don't leave much bruising marks..

pmsl, soap bars are not heavy
enough!