Hiya

What is it you do that you could just give yourself a huge slap for?

I have a tendency to be really down on myself and constantly tell myself i'm not good enough. I do have confidence issues. I also over analyse almost everything and then worry that i've offended or p*ssed somebody off. I ask really stupid questions too.

I do have to say Poor Laura. She always ends up on the receiving end of my daftness. Oh dear. Sorry Laura (i know you just wanna slap me sometimes)

Dee
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I'm like you dee, can't stop thinking and over think everything!!

I am totally paranoid as well, always think I've done wrong And pissed people off.

i know the feeling lol x

I also overthink things, and am always convinced my oh is lying (hmm, wonder why!)

Maybe overthinking is a woman thing, we always want to make sure other people are happy?

Yep I over think, over anaylise things & then worry for days afterwards. I worry If some one likes me or if iv peed them off too.
Even txts I re read to make sure iv taken it in right way. I'm awful for it. When iv been out (been way too long!!!) but next morning I panic & really get anxity worrying who I pissed off, or made a twit of myself even if I remember everything.

i shut people out. i switch off and dont speak, not a single word, to any one in the real world for weeks. i communicate via text if i really really have to.

dee u know i just tell u to shut up and get u drunk lol!! :p

JI put my self down all the time and think everyone hates me!
Constantly Think the worst of everythin

So it's not just me then. I'm relieved now. x

I am very very self critical which isn't always a bad thing but I'm such a perfectionist and I feel it holds me back a lot of the time. I am also ruled by my hormones to a massive degree and at certain times of the month I get seriously harsh on myself but the worst part is I do it to others too and I can come over as a right opinionated bitch which is awful coz I'm quite nice really I try so hard not to be like that but I don't realise till afterwards, I'm horrible to oh at times but I just hope I haven't ever offended any of you girls

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Im the same as what a few of you others are im terrible for over thinking and when ive said something im like actually maybe i shudnt have said that what if i ive upset them when i actually havent done anything wrong xx

I got myself all in a tizz yesterday and cried for at least an hour in matt's arms. I tried to tell him what it was that was wrong. I couldn't get it out. Now i'm still thinkin the same things. As usual my mind races at 200mph.

It was what i spoke to you about Laura. Half of it wouldn't come out

I'm really bad for diggin myself into a big black hole.

Dee
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OMG we are all a bunch of overthinkers. I overthink and overplay comments and situations in my head way too many times. I am also majorly indecisive which I hate as it drive other people mad and me too lol.

I also lack confidence and tend to shut myself off when I should be asking for and accepting help.

i'm obsessive and have a very low self image...all i ever do is obsess about my weight and looking/being fat

Same really, I'm always putting myself down, over thinking things, worrying about things. I'm also really paranoid and never trust anything or anyone which is really annoying.

I wind myself up about things that havent even (and probably never will) happened.

I am also a bit odd, in that sometimes I have the patience of a saint, and other times I can flip over something so trivial.

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Mines being shy when I first meet ppl, as most ppl who know me know im far from shy but when you first meet me im so quiet from being scared of saying something 'wrong' doing something wrong etc. Dont get me wrong i stress about my weight, im insecure and v hormomal at times but thats what makes a lot of me me. The one thing I could give myself a huge slap for is the shyness as im sure in the past its made me miss a lot of opportunities (if that makes sense)
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Wow there are a lot of us out there. I find it very hard to fully trust people too and am good at not accepting help even though i need it.
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